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  Name: emily luce
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Comments: Hi Auntie(:i miss you more than ever right now.. you will always be in my heart and I love you very much!! I remember when we were younger you would always tell me and sammi your favori saying "its all about me'" My dad would just stand there and roll his eyes(: those are the good times that i will always rember! and i will know that you are still watching over us. i love you very much <3 !! talk to you soon!!
Date: 11/4/2011 8:56:39 PM



Name: Carolyn Peterson
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Comments: Darling, laughing girl: You're still in my heart, on my mind. You won't ever be forgotten and I haven't stopped missing you. Such a gift for friendship you had! What fun we had together! I never knew anyone who grabbed life and devoured it like you did. I can hear your laugh. Love you BIG!
Date: 10/26/2010 6:15:29 PM



Name: Sammi Luce
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Comments: Hii Auntie(:Boy do i miss you more than ever right now.. your still in my prayers and I love you very much!! I remember when we were younger and we always had to tell you the magical saying "its all about me'" My dad would just stand there and roll his eyes(: Boy, good times! Well thank you and talk to you soon!! Love lots!
Date: 7/15/2010 11:04:56 PM



Name: Sammi Luce
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Comments: Aunt Jamie, I miss you so much! Im getting ready to graduate from middle school on june 11 and have our bug 8th grade dance this friday!! Im so excited but i wish i could see your beautiful smile as a walk across the stage. I cant believe time is flying by so fast and im going off to high school! Hopefully that means i will see Mitchy more. I barley see him now. Well i love you alot and miss you dearly! - Sam <33
Date: 6/2/2010 7:03:17 PM



Name: Nicole Antoinette
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Comments: Happy Mother's Day to the best mom in the world...miss you and love you with all of my heart. Wish you were here today for many reasons..for the boys, Devon and myself. Devon asked a lot about his Grandma Jamie today, and when the doctors would bring you back so he could meet you...he loves you dearly and I really wish he and our newest addition had the chance to meet you!!! None the less my boys will always know about you, we look at pictures and talk to you often, we know you hear us. xoxo Love always your only daughter *mini you* and couldn't be more proud.
Date: 5/10/2010 2:03:18 AM



Name: Catherine Kriner
Email: cpazdel22@yaoo.com
Comments: You are always in my heart and on my mind. Miss you oodles. Whenever I log onto your site, you can be assured there will be a flood warning in Fremont. We shared so much and learned so much when we were just "young un's". The good times and the not so good times, but that stuff worked out for you for the better it seem's. Too bad history is repeating itself. I was honored to mmeet Nic at Devon"s birthday this past summer. She is so her mother,and father. I guess she has found the perfect balance so many other's waste time trying to find. I miss you sis,Love you, Cath
Date: 2/12/2010 2:10:59 PM



Name: Darlene Russell
Email: litethebest@sbcglobal.net
Comments: Hi Jamie, This year I am Team Captain for Santa Clara Relay for Life/PartyLite. There will be many thoughts of you and will be lumninaries in your memory along with other sisters I have lost since your passing. PartyLite is donating 1,000 tealights so that is a lot of luminaries to light the path to a cure!Think of you often, adore your mom & Howard.xxoo
Date: 1/22/2010 1:29:00 AM



Name: Mom
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Comments: Merry Christmas, Jamie I miss you so much. Mom
Date: 12/25/2009 12:34:29 PM



Name: Catherine Kriner-Pazdel
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Comments: Thinking of you and missing you always.Lovingly,your lil' big sister-
Date: 10/16/2009 4:36:02 PM



Name: Jessamy
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Comments: I've been thinking about you a lot. Love you and miss you sooo much.
Date: 7/10/2009 5:10:59 PM



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Comments: I miss you Mama. We have all had a very hard week with it being your b-day week. Not too mention missing you like crazy. Mitchy and I cried and laughed together on Friday night thinking of you and how wonderful you were as a mom and a friend. We love you dearly and wish you were here to throw you a Jamie b-day party. Keep looking down us. Love you always. Nicole
Date: 3/25/2009 2:36:12 PM



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Comments: Happy Birthday, Baby! I miss you so much.Mom
Date: 3/23/2009 8:04:55 AM



Name: Catherine Kriner (Pazdel)
Email: Cpazdel22@yahoo.com
Comments: My sweet big Little sister-I've been looking For you for so long-I never knew It would be this way.I've been missing you and thinking of you and of course loving you like any sister would.I think of you everyday and comforted by the fact you are no longer in pain.Marston passed this past spring-he'll be happy to sit and chat with you,a bottle of wine and of no place other than Yosemite.He also will be the one with the infectious smile as you will too.Grandma Betty passed christmas 03.You knoww u r loved and missed sooo much.I will become a Grandmother this May.a baby girl.I have loving memories of our friendship sisterhood and the timewe shared.YOU have always been in my heart-you always will be ... Love you,Your Big Little sister,
Date: 2/25/2009 3:22:32 AM



Name: Nicole Antoinette
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Comments: I love you!!!xoxo
Date: 2/4/2009 7:37:07 PM



Name: Nate De France
Email: Nate_dfr@yahoo.com
Comments: wow, where do i start? first off i wanted to apologise for have not been paying my respects to you in a long time.. as years go by i find my self missing you more and more. Things have been real ruff lately my dad was diagnosed with cancer aswell about 2 or 3 months ago, he had a really intense surgery in his face and under his brain a week ago. he is recovering as we speak, but i dont know why im telling you.. I know that you already are knowing, you are one of the people who helped him find his way through the surgery. i miss you so much!! i promis to write back soon. love you mommy Nate-
Date: 1/31/2009 7:44:45 PM



Name: Terri Sabino Arretche
Email: tarretche@comcast.net
Comments: Jamie, I wish I would have had a chance to talk to you and say goodbye. I use to always have such a fun time at your sleepovers when we were kids. I will always treasure our childhood memories.
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Name: Travis
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Comments: hey mama!!! I miss you so much.. I'm finally playing ball again,and I know you would be so proud. I just wish you were here to watch me. I love you mama
Date: 2/20/2008 1:58:56 PM



Name: Nicole Antoinette
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Comments: Love you! Miss you so much, always in my thoughts. XOXO
Date: 1/16/2008 7:45:42 PM



Name: Jessamy
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Comments: We miss you so much and I find myself thinking of you often. You continue to be a role model in my life and even though its been 3 years your memory is still strong in all of us. I love you!
Date: 12/16/2007 7:43:38 PM



Name: Nicole Antoinette
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Comments: MISS YOU LOTS!!!!!!! XOXOXOXO
Date: 11/1/2007 1:50:48 PM



Name: Nicole Antoinette
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Comments: Hi mama, I can't believe Max has turned 18. He is doing well, so are Mitch and I. We all miss you lots. Love you! XOXO
Date: 9/12/2007 7:39:30



Name: PMDeborah Rossi
Email: Deborahrossi@comcast.net
Comments: Jamie - I miss you and can't beleive it has been three years. Ocean City in the summer without you is not the same. Jeff is doing a great job with your boys. They are sweet, wonderful young men. You must be proud of them. I love you and we all miss you. Debbie, Brooke, Ashley and Patrick.
Date: 8/27/2007 10:02:55 AM



Name: Debbie Rossi
Email: Deborahrossi@comcast.net
Comments: Jamie, I just saw some pictures of your grandson and he is so adorable. Nicole is a wonderful mom. She had a wonderful role model. We love you.
Date: 8/27/2007 10:10:15 AM



Name: darlene
Email: darlene_russell@sbcglobal.net
Comments: Hi Jamie,Although I did not know you much in life, you have been a very important part of my life and any participation I have in the fight to find a cure for Cancer. We lost another to this fight against cancer July 5th. Congratulations Nicole on becoming a Mother! Betty Em keeps me posted and she did a FANTASTIC job with Relay for Life! Jamie Love to all Darlene
Date: 7/16/2007 1:24:01 AM



Name: Camie
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Comments: Jamie,I've been thinking of you lately and miss you. I can't believe it's been 3 years. I just had my 9 year wedding anniversary.
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Name: Nicole Antoinette
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Comments: I can't believe it has been three years today. I miss you, so much. There is not a day that goes by without me thinking of you or remembering something you have told me. I love you with all of my heart. xoxo
Date: 6/29/2007 12:50:51 PM



Name: dad
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Comments: JAMIE
Date: IT'S BEEN THREE LONG YEARS,STILL MISS YOU MORE THAN EVER.THINK OF YOU EVERY DAY.LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART



Name: Nicole Antoinette
Email:
Comments: Happy Mother's Day! I will always love you mama. xoxo
Date: 5/14/2007 2:47:30 AM



Name: travis
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Comments: happy mothers day mama.. i love and miss you everyday!
Date: 5/13/2007 8:11:33 PM



Name: Nicole Antoinette
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Comments: Mama I miss you so much. I love you and always will. xoxo
Date: 4/26/2007 4:36:37 PM



Name: Travis
Email:
Comments: hey mama!!! i miss you more than ever in these high school years. :[ Everytime i screw up i feel like you were the one who would of kicked my ass and sent me down the right path. i miss you more than enything and i really really wish you were here for some guidance... and no one will ever treat and love me like you did.. i love you!!
Date: 4/21/2007 1:55:36 PM



Name: Katie - an old friend
Email: KatieGradwohl@aol.com
Comments: Jamie - I'm back doing the Avon walk in SF for you girl! I look at your pictures and remember your beautiful smile. You will always have a place in my heart. Your children are beautiful, and I'm certain Nicole will be a wonderful Mom, just like you.
Date: 4/3/2007 8:53:01 PM



Name: vilma celis
Email: celisv@cooley.com
Comments: Dear Jamie: always in my heart and prayers. Happy B-Day girl!, I can picture you singing along with all the angels on your day. God bless you always. thinking of you..
Date: 3/23/2007 1:00:50 PM



Name: dad
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Comments: happy 43rd birthday---you're going to catch up with me soon(i don't have b/days anymore) love you more than ever dad
Date: 3/23/2007 4:54:13 PM



Name: Mom
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Comments: Happy Birthday, Baby. I miss you so much. Howard and I are doing the Relay, here in Santa Clara on May 19, in your honor.love, Mom
Date: 3/23/2007 6:58:57 AM



Name: mitch
Email:
Comments: Hi momma I missed the last couple holidays but I won't miss the next one (its the most imported one)its your b-day
Date: 2/27/2007 10:57:52 PM



Name: Nicole Antoinette
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Comments: Mom wish you could be here tonight, Max is nominated for homecoming King. Aw how the boys are growing so big. I know you are a proud mom and I couldn't be a happier big sister of both my lil brothers. I am going to be escorting Max on to the field tonight, we will be thinking of you. Last night at the rally he did a cute skit, but it was really cute in his slide show he had a picture of you and him. We miss you mom and will always love you!
Date: 10/20/2006 12:30:43 PM



Name: Nicole Antoinette
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Comments: Hi mom. I miss you much. Wish you were here to meet your grandson. As well as guide me in the different steps you took to become the best mom in the world. I love you always and forever! xoxo
Date: 10/17/2006 12:36:36 PM



Name: Travis
Email:
Comments: hey mommy!so its been a while and i miss you so much. i didnt play football this year :(. and i hear everyday how much you would of loved to woop my ass for it. baseball is going good but i still miss your scream. "Way to go Handsome." nobody does it as good as you mama and i miss it. times have kind of been rough for me lately and i really wish you were here to guide me in the right direstion. even though i know you are still trying. mama i love you sooooo much and i miss you too much. hope your doing good. Love you <33
Date: 10/10/2006 2:21:17 AM



Name: Monika Miles
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Comments: Dear Jamie (and family), I didn't know you during your lifetime, but I spent a few minutes getting to know you on this site today. I found your site because I was looking for the Sanskrit Proverb about "Look to this day for it is life..." I'm walking in ACS's Making Strides Against Breast Cancer in San Francisco for the 9th year, and am still raising money for the upcoming event in two weeks. I wanted to use the poem in my next fundraising email blast. Anyway, I "googled" it and found your site. (Any coincidence that of all the sites I could have found, I found yours - right here in San Jose?) My mom has fought the fight twice and she's still with me. It's because of her and women like you that I do what I can every year to raise money for breast cancer research. Thank you for the inspiration. Now, about those email blasts....Hugs & Strides, Monika - San Jose,CA.
Date: 10/7/2006 1:16:39 PM



Name: DAVE FERGUSON
Email: fergie_hd@yahoo.com
Comments: Jamie I writing this to let you know that you are a grandma now your grandson was born 7/29/06 at 1:48 a.m. he was 7lbs.10oz. and 19"long his name is DEVON MATHEW SOTO. our daughter and grandson are doing great, wish you could be here to see your beautiful grandson. he's precious, everytime i look at him or hold him it reminds me of the day NICOLE was born what a special day that was,that was the happiest day of my life. now our daughters a "MOM" wow! she will make a great mom just like you were.YOU ARE DEEPLY MISSED AND LOVED BY ALL.
Date: 8/11/2006 6:46:26 PM



Name: mom
Email:
Comments: Hope the site stays clean and the kids can still come w/o all that garbage. Miss you so much.
Date: 7/15/2006 8:07:39 PM



Name: MOM
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Comments: JAMIE YOU ARE SO MISSED BY SO MANY. I AM SURE YOU KNOW ALL THE THINGS EVERYONE IS STILL DOING IN YOUR NAME, BOTH JANETS ARE STILL DOING THE 3 DAY WALKS AND SO MUCH HAS CHANGED BUT STAYED THE SAME. THE UPDATES ARE ON THE LINKS. I MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH. MOM
Date: 6/30/2006 1:19:06 PM



Name: dad
Email:
Comments: jamie I can't believe it's been 2 years--I still love you more than ever
Date: 6/29/2006 3:32:25 PM



Name: Nicole Antoinette
Email:
Comments: Hi mom...a day late is better than never. Just wanted you to know you were in my thoughts all day yesterday. I hope you had a wonderful Mother's Day...you are the best!!! Everyone seems to be doing better. As you know I was in a serious car accident and I know you were there through it all because it was amazing that the baby and I are both ok. I have some troubles walking now, but hopefully in time it will all go away...mostly a lot of pain. But I thank my lucky stars and you for helping me through such hard times. Well 9 weeks until you offically become a grandma...I wish nothing more than you to be here to hold my hand and show me how to be as perfect as you, as a mommy. I know you will still giving me a helping hand when needed. I love you always and forever...and so will your grandson. xoxo
Date: 5/15/2006 1:20:43 PM



Name: Max/handsome
Email:
Comments: hey mommy how are you doing i havent written to you in a long time sorry about that. I just want to let you know that i miss you soooooo much and i love you anyway HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!!!!!!! i no ur celebrating it some how. You did a good job of protecting sissy in that crash good job mommy hahaha. well keep up the good work and thanks for keeping me out of trouble when you can. Ya so just wanted to check in and say happy mothers day so ill probably start talking to you more. O ya i have a girl friend shes amazing weve been going out for almost 11 months but im sure you already know that. And i know you would aprove. OK well i have to go mommy but i miss you and i love you. bye bye love, Handsome
Date: 5/14/2006 1:53:05 PM



Name: Janet
Email: janetvanpelt1@comcast.net
Comments: Happy Mother's Day Jamie. I think about you all of the time and you are always in my heart. I crewed the Avon walk in DC 2 weeks ago and you were there with me giving support to the walkers. I passed out cards with your picture and the beatiful inspirational quotes that are on this website. It really moved the people. Your remembered and loved forever. I can hear your laughter.......love and miss you.
Date: 5/10/2006 9:17:18 AM



Name: mitch
Email:
Comments: hi MOM happy birthday. i hope u r celebrating it the same way u would celebrate it here. u r probole drinking a glass of fine wine right now and getting ready for your birthday week. I'm doing better in school. And we all miss you very much. I know your busy right now so I'll let you get back to your birthday party. I luv u very much: love your favorite son ha ha just kiding, Max and dad miss u too.
Date: 3/24/2006 1:13:51 AM



Name: Nicole Antoinette
Email:
Comments: HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM!!! I love you and miss you dearly. Wish you were here. I know you are watching over me and your grandson, thank you. You raised me right now giving me the guiding light to do the same with my baby. Mitchy has been pitching and from what I've heard been doing wonderful. "Way to go handsome, keep it up." If it was a football I would say it most be you on the field, the boys picked up there FB talent from their mama. Oh how you can throw a nice spiral. But Mitchy is are little all-star! I haven't made it to a game yet, because day light savings isn't for another week, which means they start early and end before I can make it out there. I am working for a real estate company and love it. I am going to complete my education in real estate, I would to become a broker or agent. Well mom continue to watch over us and know that we still think of you daily. There are so many who love you. Love always and forever your daughter. xoxoxoxoxo
Date: 3/23/2006 1:37:12 PM



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Comments: Happy Birthday, Baby. I miss you so much. Mom
Date: 3/23/2006 11:04:02 AM



Name: Travis
Email:
Comments: Hey momma!!!! i am writing to u to let you know that i have really screwed things up in the last month. first i got in trouble throwing things at cars. and then yesterday i found out that i didnt make grades to play baseball. today thought there was an upside to not maing grades. i tried really hard to get my grades up because there was still some hope that i could play. i fixed my grades and got it up to a 2.0... we played today and we BEAT branham. i just wanted to let u know that i know u did something to help me get my grades up. i love you and miss you more and more everyday. again i love you
Date: 3/22/2006 10:23:49 PM



Name: veronica covdy
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Comments: Even though I didn�t have the pleasure of knowing you, I know your son, Mitch. He has a lot of great qualities that he inherited from you. I wish you the best of luck in heaven and remember, your family and friends will always love and be with you. We will all pray for you. <3
Date: 2/22/2006 9:25:55 PM



Name: Christina Manriquez
Email: shadowrae@comcast.net
Comments: Jamie- Hi im christina James sister and I miss you very much!I meet you alot of times and u and my mom were the bestest of friends and so are James and Mitch!You were so kind to me and My brother like letting him and Mitch sleepover and movies etc!Miss You Lots-Christina
Date: 1/26/2006 5:24:56 PM



Name: JAMIE LYNN
Email: 121314
Comments: URE THE BEST
Date: 1/5/2006 6:54:59 AM



Name: kev
Email:
Comments: hey jamie im just stoppin by to say i miss you, its almost new years and about my last guestbook signing.... THANK YOU!! ive been with my girlfriend jennifer for 3 months on the first! i KNOW you helped me out on at least a thing or two. alright jamie ill write more in here in a little while but in the meantime ill be thinking of you alright i miss you -kev
Date: 12/30/2005 11:14:48 PM



Name: Nicole Antoinette
Email: an6elma@yahoo.com
Comments: Hi Momma...your youngest is growing up, he is going to be 12 on Monday. We all wish you were there with your warm heart and love. We know you will be there watching over us. Nothing is ever going to be the same without our mom, but we love you all the same and we know that your love is always filling every room we enter. It is so hard to deal sometimes, but you'll help us get through. Keep smiling we are doing well!!! Max was hired at Auntie Ann's, the older of the two boys has started his first job. I started a new job as well. There is so much we wish we could share with you because no one will ever replace the love, comfort and compassion of our mom. I LOVE YOU!!! Miss you a whole bunch. Love Always, your daughter Nicole. Xoxoxoxoxo
Date: 11/11/2005 6:20:11 PM



Name: mary
Email:
Comments: been thinking about you a lot the past couple of days, jamie. i wasn't home this summer to see jess or morgan, so i didn't even stop by the neighborhood. but i just wanted you to know i think of you from time to time and still can't fathom that you're going. i think cuz i'm so far away. but anyways, just wanted you to know that i've always admired your inner and outer beauty. not only do you family and friends miss you, the world does. i'm glad you're up there looking down on everyone, but i know everyone wishes you were still here. thanks for the few, but lasting memories.
Date: 10/7/2005 1:50:04 AM



Name: Janet
Email: janetvanpelt1@comcast.net
Comments: Hey buddy, I just finished the second 3-day walk in your honor. You were with me every step of the way. Some people said you resembled Vanna White. But your much prettier! I know your proud of the Buddies for Breasts. We raised $128,000.00 to find a cure! LOVE YOU BIG. cj
Date: 9/30/2005 2:59:21 PM



Name: kevin
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Comments: jamie i really like this girl and everything has been going my way and i kno youve been helping me out so thank you so much this girl is like the best ever i love you so much jamie
Date: 9/22/2005 9:59:09 PM



Name: Travis
Email:
Comments: Hey Momma! today i found out that nick guillett wouldnt sign me and max off to play for almaden pop warner. It would have been nice to have the three of us play another year together. But as of now its not going to happen. Max, Nate, and I are still trying to find a way to play, so we might have to go talk to him ourselves. Set things straight. But if there is anything you can do please do it. I Love you Momma. Travis
Date: 8/9/2005 7:40:50 PM



Name: Nate
Email: nate_dfr@yahoo.com
Comments: Hi Momma.. I cant believe it when i say to my self that you have been gone for well over a year and continue to suprise my self of how i could have gone through all the things that i have and accomlished so many things with out you being here, but then i cheered up when i realised that you have been here by my side guideding me through my ups and downs through out my life. Momma im going to be 16 in about a week and for the second time ure not going to be here when it happens. I remember when ever it was my birthday, i never wanted to make a big deal about it but you being the partier in the family always tried to make a big celebration out of it and always found some way to make me dinner. Growing up, sometimes i had personal problems and always had you to talk to and i would never hesitate to say anything to you because i knew that what ever i was feeling down about, after our talk i knew that it would end up being all better. Momma if you were here right now you would be so suprised of how much all of your boys have grown up, and you would be so proud to know that we have all grown to be exactly how you would want us to be. A couple weeks ago your family got to spread your ashes in Hawaii and it brought tears to my eyes to hear that i would not be able to be there. I miss you so much momma! I know that you're going to be here forever helping me make the right desisions growing up. Until we meet again Momma.. -I Love You-
Date: 7/27/2005 6:10:30 PM



Name: Travis
Email:
Comments: Hey Mama!! I was sitting hear looking at your website, and all of the sudden i felt a tear running down the side of my face. In the past few weeks i have missed you tremendously. I miss your presence as a person, but I especially miss the words "way to go handsome," or "Go handsome," as you are cheering Max and I on from the stands. As the summer goes by, I keep thinking to myself that you would be so proud of me as i enter High School. I am going to go to Leigh, but its hard to think that your not going to be there to watch me perform at the High School level. At the same time though I know you will be watching me play from above. Well thats all for now but you will be hearing from me again soon. I Love You So Much!!!
Date: 7/27/2005 2:20:52 AM



Name: Jessamy
Email:
Comments: Hi Jamie. this year in honor of you my family, the masons, and michelle and her kids went to maui. we left on june 30th and stayed thru my birthday until the 7th of july. this year i found to be the hardest i've ever been thru. and it wasn't til the day before we got on to our plane that it really hit me. it was around 10:30 on the 29th of june, we were driving up to san fransico, to stay in a hotel because our flight was so early in the morning, that it reality hit me and i just broke down. its hard for me to admit that your gone and that i can't just walk across the street and not see you or talk to you. While in maui we saw you boys and Nicole. and the whole time i was there i just felt like this was your place, and i could just feel your presense on the island. it was the perfect place for you to be, its where you wanted to be, and the place that the kids found to leave your ashes was perfect. now you can see the sunset and the entire island. when we went we found another perfect place for you. right off of black rock. we had a lai in your memory and the neighborhood group was there to say goodbye and all of their loving thoughts to you. as i've always said i will not forget what an amazing women you are and that always dazzling smile. you will always be in my heart and in the hearts of the many you touched in your time spent here. i love you and miss you very much.
Date: 7/19/2005 12:54:51 PM



Name: JENNIFER
Email: ONESFUZZI
Comments: JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW I CONTINUE TO WALK ALL THE WALKS I CAN IN YOUR MEMORY. IN SEPT. WE WILL BE WALKING IN THE RELAY FOR LIFE HERE IN ROCKLIN. IT IS A 24HR WALK. WE ARE TEAM JAMIE. WE WILL BE CAMPING OUT AND TAKING SHIFTS..DON'T WORRY WE WILL HAVE A COUPLE BOTTLES OF GOOD WINE WITH US IN YOUR HONOR OF COARSE AND REAL WINE GLASSES NOT PLASTIC. I LOVE AND MISS JEN
Date: 6/25/2005 3:12:20 AM



Name: AShley Milburn.
Email: ashleymilburn930528@yahoo.com
Comments: Dear Jamie, Hello. My name is AShley and I am one of Mitches friend! I always hear about you. You seem very sweet and kind. I hope I met you before you passed away. I hope you have a GREAT life in Heaven and I hope to see you there. =) Have a Wonderful, Wonderful day!=)
Date: 6/19/2005 2:04:28 AM



Name: Tiffany Ferguson
Email:
Comments: Hi Auntie, So yesterday I picked up your wonderful son Max from school and then went to lunch and back home, but when I walked in the house I was just waiting for you to say Hi Sweetie or hey Tiff how was your day..It hit me hard last night it made me think of all the memories we have and all the good times we shared. You made me do a lot of stuff for the 1st time now that I think about it. You were the 1st person to get me on a rolla-coaster (top gun), Nikki was to scared to go, but some way you talked me into it, or trying an artichoke witch I love to this day, and boggy boarding the 1st time at Capitola I can home with a fractured arm. Trying clams that's the only seafood I will eat, and bre cheese this one I didn't like but you made me try it.. Last night it was like I was re-living my childhood all the times I spent the night, I even remember at the old house in Milpitas to the house on Woodford it was like me and Nikki were inseparable... Nikki and I always loved when you took us to SEA CLIFF on Memorial Day. We were talking about how you got the Suburban the day before and we were all happy, we got up at 8 and left up there and ate breakfeast and spent the whole day at the beach BBQ and playing football, Auntie you had a arm on you like know other women I know... So Nikki and me went up there this past Memorial Day just to have the tradition you started.. I Miss You very much Auntie and think about you all the time... Love You Always Tiffany
Date: 6/15/2005 9:34:05 PM



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Email: kenji@beadstore.net
Comments: I really love the content of this site it serves as a source of valuable information in my life .I will continue to visit this websites often and I would like to thank you for your continual service www.beadstore.net
Date: 5/30/2005 4:28:34 AM



Name: kevin
Email: muscleman0082@hotmail.com
Comments: jamie if there are cars in heaven i hope you have some hair otherwise youll have to remember the golden rule while driving!! ive wanted to write in this for sooooo long but never have. i DUNKED for the first time in my life a couple days ago and then when i got home i listend to i believe i can fly like non stop and have been dunkin like crazy since. i think about you and the fam all the time, seriously like all the time, and ill be comming back pretty soon hopefully on the 29th again. i miss you ALOT and have something to look forward to when i die! alright see ya. -kev
Date: 5/27/2005 10:59:50 PM



Name: Glenda Correia-Edwards
Email: gedwards@atmi.com
Comments: To the Luce and Calehuff families and friends: I just learned of Jamie's passing on Saturday (5/21/05). Jamie and I were childhood friends who lost touch with one another. I was so excited to run in to her when my daughters (Danielle and Rachel) joined Sartorette elementary a couple of years ago. I thought, how great, we can reconnect with one another. That connection never happened. Little did I know she was starting her fight with cancer. It was about this same time that my Mom started her fight with breast cancer. Thankfully she is still with us today. It has brought me such joy and sadness to view all of the pictures and comments on this beautiful web site dedicated to Jamie. I can tell that the Jamie I knew as a kid, grew up to be the same kind, fun loving, giving person that I knew. Jamie never had a bad thing to say about anyone, she always made you feel good about yourself. My heart and prayers go out to all who knew and loved Jamie. Glenda
Date: 5/23/2005 9:22:45 PM



Name: Nicole Antoinette
Email:
Comments: HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!!! TO THE BEST MOM IN THE WORLD. I LOVE YOU!
Date: 5/8/2005 9:39:25 PM



Name: Eric hardy
Email: micktmouse @ yahoo,com
Comments: dear jamie , i wil mis u alot you were always so sweet to mitch and i , you would always let us stay up as late as we wanted to eating all the junk food we could. I loved it when you would bring us to all the wonderfulplaces to have so much fun. thanks alot jamie from eric
Date: 4/29/2005 7:10:23 PM



Name: Eric hardy
Email:
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Date: 4/29/2005 11:27:47 AM



Name: eric hardy
Email: mickymouse311@yahoo.com
Comments: Dear Jamie i m going 2 miss u so much. when mitch and I had all of those sleepovers you would make us hot chocolate and poptarts. I remember your family invited me to mantica waterslides. I did not have enough money to buy a necklaceand you gave me like 10 dollars. You were allways making food for mitch and i . Have a good life in heaven i wil mis u alot
Date: 4/29/2005 11:26:19 AM



Name: Nicole Antoinette
Email: an6elma@yahoo.com
Comments: Hi mama! I always thought as the days went by the easier the coping would become, however I find that it becomes even harder. Every time something isn�t right I want your advice, when I feel proud about something I wish I could share it with you and whenever I need to hear a friendly loving voice to talk to I want to pick up and dial you. Well I can�t any longer, but I do still talk with you and I know your listening. I know that you are still smiling down on us three kids; leading us in the direction we should be headed. I thought I would share with you how awesome Boog is doing this year in baseball; he is pitching and doing a great job. Even Max said so, now that�s a statement we thought we would never hear. Max is trying harder in school, was offered his first job and is going to be starting his baseball season right around the corner. You made life look so easy, why couldn�t always be like that. I was at the baseball field the other day and that is one of the hardest places I have been since you passed. All of your wonderful friends you made thru little league asked how we have been and it was hard, because we may be doing ok but without you it is very difficult. A few of those made comments��I haven�t heard anyone say WAY TO GO HANDSOME!� I actually think about it at all of the boys sporting events, but I wouldn�t get two words out of my mouth before the tears fall. I have tried. You are so beautiful inside and out, I hope to always be Jamie junior. Nothing could make me more proud than to be looked at as a little you, well and besides the fact I am your daughter. I MISS YOU!!! Love You Always! xoxoxo
Date: 4/26/2005 7:18:46 PM



Name: Nate DeFrance
Email:
Comments: hey momma, When ever I am missin you or thinking about you i can always result to writting to you on this page were so many people who have love for you.. These past few days have been so hard for me, ive learned ive been holding my feelings in and its hard for me to let you go and realize that you are gone, A person who I consider my second mother is gone and for I will not be able to ever see your face again I think has been the hardest thing I have ever had to swallow.. As you probably know Mitchel and I have joined the wrestling team at Branham..I have always kept a picture of you in my bag and when ever we had a match the picture would come out and Mitch and I would kiss you before our matches for good luck..our team ended up undefeated being leage champions and everyone believes its because of you and your blessings our goals and accomplishments came true. I miss you so much Jamie i cant start to explain.. Yesterday max took me out of class to tell me how much he misses you i couldn't help for anything but to cry along with him. It is hard to see max cope with the loss of his mother because he holds everthing inside and i can see it, but he doesn't want to let you go.. We all know you are watching over us woodford kids.. We all thank you for raising us to be good kids. We do believe i will see you again, but not yet.. you are always in my prayers and dreams Jamie and will forever be missed. I love you momma- *Your good Child, Nate*
Date: 3/26/2005 3:17:32 AM



Name: EVANS FAMILY
Email:
Comments: Dear Jamie, We just wanted to say Happy late Birthday. We miss you and think about you all of the time. We remember you everytime we see Mitch.
Date: 3/25/2005 9:16:36 PM



Name: mitch
Email: huff1@pacbell.net
Comments: Mom, Happy 41st birthday. Don't worry I still think you look like your 31. I love you and miss you and it's been hard. It was especially hard celebrating all of the holidays especially your birthday. We all miss you and you are in all of our thoughts. Love you MOM Mitch
Date: 3/24/2005 12:51:38 AM



Name: Jessamy
Email:
Comments: hi jamie. happy 41st birthday. i just know that you are up in heaven throwing the biggest party ever. you were always really good at that. you were the glue to our neighborhood and you kept things exciting with your infectious laugh and huge pearly white smile. mom is missing you so much, as are we all. i love you jamie, and i will never forget you, because you will always live in the hearts of everyone you touched.
Date: 3/24/2005 12:50:06 AM



Name: Morgan
Email:
Comments: hey jamie, happy birthday! As you already know March has ben a tough month, espcially fer my mom. She really misses you, as well as all of us do. My mom's birthday and my birthday were not the same but nothing has since you ahve been gone. I can't belive it has ben almost a year. none of us want to admit that you have passed but we all have to face reality eventually. well Happy Birthday again, until we meet again..<3 LovE MINI ME!!
Date: 3/24/2005 12:30:03 AM



Name: Max
Email:
Comments: hey mom i miss u happy b-day.. i no this is the first time i wrote in here cuz i never wanted 2 admite that u died but now i can i know is gunna be hard and i no its hard 4 u not 2 ever see me again but i feel the same soo just think of that i love you just remember that and i think u can get threw it untill we meet again LOVE YOU BYE
Date: 3/23/2005 8:13:56 PM



Name: Nicole Antoinette
Email: an6elma@yahoo.com
Comments: HAPPY BIRTHDAY MAMA! I miss you more than ever imagined. The boys and I wish you could be here to celebrate #41. Parties without you are not the same, you brought the life and the best smile and laugh. Well just wanted to say "Hi!" Easter is almost here, I have to be honest holidays are not the same. Another one to get through. I have all your beautiful pictures, with your ear to ear smile that I look at all the time. I remeber all the laugh and times we shared together as mother and daughter and as friends. I am so greatful that I had a wonderful woman...you as my mom. I LOVE YOU! XOXOXO
Date: 3/23/2005 12:41:15 PM



Name: Linda
Email: weskoe@pacbell.net
Comments: Happy birthday Jamie! We miss you so much. March has been a hard month, you used to fill it with parties. But I have lots of memories, especially your big party last year with the firemen!!! I have lots of pictures from that celebration. Just wanted to say I am still thinking of you and missing you! Love Linda
Date: 3/23/2005 11:35:00 AM



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Email:
Comments: Jamie Happy Birthday! I love you and miss you. Mom
Date: 3/23/2005 11:12:23 AM



Name: mary
Email: lazydaisy21686@yahoo.com
Comments: hi jamie. it's mary. morgan and jessamy's cousin. i'm at college in new york now and my skool is actually doing a relay for life event in the next couple of weeks. i got an e-mail about it that said we could submit pictures of people we know who have had or died from cancer. i immediately thoguht of you, so i hope you don't mind. i had to come back to this site and i've been reading through a lot of the comments. i just wanted to let you know jamie that although we were never really that close, i always admired you. more than a lot of people, i admired you a great deal. not only were you beautiful on the outside, but your beauty on the inside shown through even more. and i hope that i can show the same gracefulness and beauty and warmth that you possessed every moment i saw you. you are a beautiful person who has a beautiful family and though i'm at college and i never did see you that much anyways, i do miss u. everyone, even those who didn't know you, miss you, because the world truly has lost an angel. if only the world could have more beautiful like you...miss you and love you jamie.
Date: 3/17/2005 9:44:33 AM



Name: jennifer
Email: onesfuzzi@aol.com
Comments: JAMES I'VE BEEN THINKING ABOUT YOU A LOT LATELY. I KNOW YOU ARE AT PEACE NOW. I LOVE YOU
Date: 2/28/2005 11:09:32 PM



Name: brittany wilkins
Email:
Comments: mi whole family is thinking of you all the time and we miss you so much.i remember all the times you spent with my family at football games and when you came to my oms baby shower when she was having dustin. well i miss you and you will never leave my heart love brittany
Date: 2/17/2005 5:16:36 PM



Name: Mom
Email: b@hbmyers.com
Comments: Honey, I miss you so much, as do all the kids. Mom
Date: 2/3/2005 3:27:24 PM



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Date: 2/3/2005 3:25:05 PM



Name: jessamy
Email:
Comments: 6 months is supposed to be a long time but it really hasnt felt like that, because ever since this summer ive felt like even though u r gone physically that u r here in all of hearts looking out for everyone of us like a guardian angel. this month has probably been the hardest one that ive had since june, just because it is the holiday season and u did a lot of stuff with all of ur many friends, my family being one of them. but my friend gave me good advise, and it was wierd because when he gave it to me it sounded like something that u would tell me, like u were trying to tell me through him, like a sign, silly i know but all the little things count now i see them more than i did, and it helped me a lot. he said that thinking of a life without that person hurts your soul but just because they rnt physically right there doesnt mean that they rnt in every moment of your life, dont forget because the best thing that you could do for them is live to the fullest in their memory and know that life is a precious gift. jamie u taught me that and i love u with all of my heart every day u have made me stronger and i thank u for that. i love your family for being so strong and loving, and i want them to know that i love them and if they need me for anything im just afew steps away. god bless you and i just pray that u dont stop teaching me life lessons, i never said it enough, so thank you
Date: 12/30/2004 3:23:52 AM



Name: JESSICA
Email: JESSICA4914@YAHOO.COM
Comments: HEY JAMIE DO YOU REMEMBER TWO CHRISTMASES AGO WHEN MY MOM GOT A BLACK HIGH WHEN SHE BANGED HER HEAD ON THE COFFEE TABLE AND EVERYBODY WAS TEASING HER SAYING SHE GOT BEAT UP? OR WHAT ABOUT LAST YEAR WHEN YOU FELL ON THE PRESENTS AND SQUISHED THEM? I WAS THINKING ABOUT THAT LAST NIGHT AND IT MADE ME LAUGH. I REMEMBER MY MOM PUUTING THEM IN THE TRUCK WHEN WE WERE GOING TO MY NANA'S HOUSE AND TRYING TO SQUISH THEM BACK INTO SHAPE. IT WAS SO FUNNY. I MISS YOU WITH ALL MY HEART. I TO FEEL LIKE YOU ARE WATCHING OVER ME. MY MOM HAD LUNCH WITH "THE GIRLS" LAST WEEKEND. I KNOW YOU WERE THERE WITH THEM. I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT I AM FINALLY DOING IT. I KNOW YOU KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT. YOU WOULD BE SO PROUD. MOST IMPORTANT I AM PROUD. I THINK ABOUT YOU CONSTANTLY AND I MISS THE KIDS LIKE CRAZY. SO IF YOU GUYS ARE READING THIS....CALL ME! LOVE YOU ALL! MERRY CHRISTMAS!
Date: 12/22/2004 4:17:30 PM



Name: Nicole Antoinette
Email: an6elma@yahoo.com
Comments: Hi mom, Christmas is just a couple days away...unfortunately it does feel that way. I love you and miss you!!! I know that you are always with us at all times and for that I am greatful. There is just an empty spot, you brought life to family gatherings. What is Christmas going to be without you...the memories are there. I already see you and Uncle Johnny playing around at the dinner table. You looking so beautiful as always. The boys running through grandmas house. The girls wanting to sit and begging to go home with Auntie Jamie and sleep in her warm cozy bed. Nate and Travis bringing mom gifts. The excitment of opening our gifts christmas morning at your house. All the smile, laughs, hugs and kisses...are now going to be tears and memories of everything you brought to a Holiday celebration. I know you are with me at all times, please help lead the way through rough seasons. I LOVE YOU!!!!! Merry Christmas xoxoxoxoxo
Date: 12/22/2004 12:00:11 PM



Name: vilma celis
Email: celisv@cooley.com
Comments: Just to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers every day. I always think of Jamie smiling with that bright and sincere smile of hers, I am sure she is keeping watch over her loved ones. Hope this Christmas is kind to you all, Jamie will be with all of you always. Keep smiling in her honor, be happy for her, she is smiling down for all of us to see her in the sky as a bright star. Happy Holidays and hope the new year is kinder and better for you all. With warm regards. Vilma Celis
Date: 12/8/2004 12:29:39 PM



Name: jessamy
Email:
Comments: jamie- this christmas season is probably going to be the hardest without you. we will pull threw with you in our thoughts. i just wanted to let you know that you arent forgotten. i know that when im feeling weak i think of your strength and how much i want to be like you. you were an amazing woman! i miss you and love you lots!
Date: 12/7/2004 3:08:41 PM



Name: Nettie Bell Weiner
Email: zipspike2003@msn.com
Comments: To My Queen: I'm sure you already know all of this (being the good guardian angel that you are), but Baby Jamie will be arriving sometime this July. Matty has named him/her "Crackers" while he/she is in mommy's tummy. Me, Mike and Matty walked in the Race for the Cure 5K this last October. Consciously reaching for the "I race in memory of" sign instead of the "I race in celebration of" sign was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. The tears came fast and heavy - so much so that I had to just sit down on the pavement and let them take over. A total stranger came and gave me a much needed and much appreciated bear hug when I told her about you. I have a wonderful wild mint plant in my front yard - I call it "Jamie's Mint." I talk to it as if it was you - that's why I think it thrives the way it does. I had some new friends over the evening of the walk and we used some of "Jamie's Mint" for mojitos. Homemade lasagna and that ooey gooey diet bread you used to make were also on the menu -- all in honor of you. I miss you more than words can say. Please keep watching over us, especially "Crackers." I love you. Love, Nettie
Date: 12/1/2004 12:01:57 AM



Name: Nate DeFrance
Email:
Comments: Hey jamie, i miss you so much! Im keeping an eye on your oldest for you, hes doing fine he just misses you a whole bunch, aswell as the rest of us. I miss seeing my second momma when me and max come back from the movies or hanging out some were and your not there to see..things are just not the same without you. My mom recently moved down the street from your house, so im finally in the neiborhood, i just wish you were here to see. I want to thank you for watching over me every single day. ~I Love You Jamie~ ~Your Good Son,Nate~
Date: 11/28/2004 3:00:51 PM



Name: Nicole Antoinette
Email:
Comments: Happy Thanksgiving! We miss you so much and wish you were there. Dinner just was not the same without your beautiful smile and your cheery laugh. I wish you were sitting next to me, sipping your glass of wine! I LOVE YOU!!! I miss you so much mama! xoxoxo
Date: 11/26/2004 11:39:18 AM



Name: Camie
Email:
Comments: I must say, we (Jeanine, Auntie Nana, Brandon, Aiden and Conor) had a good time walking in Jamie's honor. We shared some good laughs, great memories and even wore mardi gras beads (in shades of pink) Jamie would have had a blast. I walked proud on the cancer walk in the Desert wearing a t-shirt with her picture on it...one gentleman commented on how beautiful she was...if he only knew. The legacy she has left behind is beautiful. Jamie, thank you for just some of the lessons in life you have taught me: to laugh when things go wrong, to put others before myself, to take time for what matters, to love and above all else....to smile...no matter what. I miss you!
Date: 11/12/2004 2:29:06 AM



Name: Jan Miedecke
Email: medakee@frontiernet.net
Comments: Another thing I forgot, is, this is the most wonderful thing you could do to honor Jamie. THIS WEBSITE IS WONDERFUL... I JUST KNOW SHE IS AWARE AND LOVING IT!!!
Date: 10/29/2004 1:30:11 AM



Name: Jan Miedecke
Email: medakee@frontiernet.net
Comments: I am so very sorry for your loss. I know what losing a loved one can do. I wish you all god speed. I did not know Jamie. I found out about Jamie through a friend. My friend did the 3 day Breast Cancer Walk-a-thon recently. I am doing a Creative Memories Scrapbook for her in all pink. Pages front Jamies website and emails regarding her are in this scrapbook. I read all the comments, and it seems to me she was very well loved. She is now an angel and I am sure as beautiful now as she was on earth. Again, I wish to wish you her family my condolences. Take Care of YOU all.
Date: 10/29/2004 1:25:25 AM



Name: Jeanine
Email: jbarbaro32@yahoo.com
Comments: I miss you Jamie, I think about you every day. Auntie Nana, Camie, Kristi, Brandon and I will be walking for you in the relay for life at the College of the Desert on Sat. Oct. 30th. I love you.
Date: 10/28/2004 4:35:56 PM



Name: jessamy
Email:
Comments: not 2 weeks ago i got into a car accident, i rear ended someone, and messed my car up really bad, my airbags even went off. i walked away from the accident with nothing but a buise on my arm from the air bag. at the moment when i hit the guy ahead of me all i could think was this isnt good, im probably hurt, and there was a lot more, but the main thing was that it could have been so much more serious and i felt that someone was looking out for me, my guardian angel. and then i remembered back to one of the days right after she left us, and i was sitting with her niece samantha and she was telling how they were so lucky (heaven being the lucky ones) because they just got the most beautiful angel that there ever was, and i know deep in my heart that she was there with me in my car keeping me safe. i miss you jamie
Date: 10/20/2004 3:15:27 PM



Name: JESSICA DULIS
Email: JESSICA4914@YAHOO.COM
Comments: JEFF, NICOLE, MAX AND MITCHIE.... I LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH. YOU GUYS ARE LIKE MY SECOND FAMILY. JAMIE WAS MY MOMS BEST FRIEND. AND JEFF HOLDS A CLOSE SECOND. I REMEMBER JAMIE TELLING ME ONE TIME, "YOU KNOW I AM LIKE YOUR 2ND MOM...." AND THAT LEAD INTO A LECTURE OF SOME SORT. I ALSO REMEBER JAMIE TEACHING ME HOW TO DRIVE A STICK SHIFT. HER NICOLE AND I WENT TO A LIGHT RAIL PARKING LOT AND SHE PARKED IN A PARKING STALL HOPPED OUT AND TOLD ME TO SWITCH PLACES WITH HER. FOR THE NEXT HOUR I PROCEEDED TO BACK IN AND OUT OF THE PARKING STALL UNTIL I HAD THE HANG OF IT. MY MOM WAS NICOLE'S PREESCHOOL AND ONE OF JAMIE'S BEST FRIENDS. I CAN'T TELL YOU HOW MANY TEARS I HAVE CRIED. BUT, IF YOU COULD COUNT ALL THE TEARS THAT HAVE FALLEN FOR JAMIE YOU WOULD PROBABLY FILL A LARGE LAKE. SHE WAS AN AMAZING WOMAN. I LOVE YOU JAMIE....FOREVER!
Date: 10/12/2004 8:50:35 PM



Name: JESSICA DULIS
Email: JESSICA
Comments:
Date: 10/12/2004 8:41:31 PM



Name: jennifer
Email: onesfuzzi@aol.com
Comments: I made a mistake about the walk date. the actual date is saturday oct 9th
Date: 9/29/2004 12:04:52 AM



Name: jessamy
Email:
Comments: hey jamie, this summer has been a tough one without you, my mom and sister miss you so much and even though my dad doesnt say much i know that inside hes crying. i miss you with all my heart and you were the greatest woman i no, u are my role model and i will never forget! my cousin mary is in ny for college and she is trying to get a breast cancer walk together in memorie of you and the many other women out there who fight this frightening disease. max and mitch r amzing kids, you did a great job raising them, i will always be there friend when they need me and i will never let them forget how much u loved them. and this year for halloween, i no youd like this, my sister and i are goiing to be witches, we are the second generation of the witches of woodford, this is all for u and to show that my family will forever love you and your family, keep an eye on us, i know u will. i love you jamie
Date: 9/28/2004 4:23:09 PM



Name: jennifer
Email: onesfuzzi2AOL.COM
Comments: LAST NIGHT SARAH AND I WERE LISTENING TO YOUR CD,YOU COULDN'T LET US KNOW ANY STRONGER THAN YOU DID THAT YOU WERE PRESENT.I MISS YOU MY COUNIN I KNOW THAT WE DRIFTED APART OVER THE YEARS AND I'M SAD FOR THAT.SARAH AND I WILL BE WALKING THE SUSAN G KOMEN WALK FOR YOU ON OCT 7. NICOLE AND ANYONE ELSE WHO WOULD LIKE TO DO THAT WITH US PLEASE LET US KNOW.
Date: 9/26/2004 2:32:25 AM



Name: Carolyn
Email: petersonca@cooley.com
Comments: Missed you so much at JJ's birthday party at the beach at Seascape. You would have loved it. Felt your spirit there strongly and miss you every minute at work. Still have tears. Still. Always. Love, CP
Date: 9/2/2004 12:52:52 AM



Name: Laura Mason
Email: rlmmason@sbcglobal.net
Comments: Jamie was a very special person. She was the glue of our neighborhood, bringing us all together at her BBQ's. She was a very generous and giving person. She would do anything for anyone and do it with a smile on her face. She faced her cancer with courage and grace, she was a beautiful person who will never be forgotten. My love to you always Jamie! Your "Witch of Woodford" Sister
Date: 9/1/2004 6:40:43 PM



Name: Jeanine Barbaro
Email: jeanine.barbaro@achdirect.com
Comments: Jamie, You use to watch me when I was little. Your little cousin tagging along. I will miss you til we meet again. Im so glad I got to see you in the Desert a few months ago. Who knew things can change so quickly.I know your with Grandma Flo. and I know she is taking care of you like she always has. Nicole, Max and Mitch, If you ever need anything, I will always be here for you. You can call me any time.I love you all.
Date: 8/20/2004 8:03:13 PM



Name: Sal
Email: salvasquez@sbcglobal.net
Comments: Jamie, I'm sorry to see you go. We both were fighting this illness. I just found out as I was put back into remission I heard the news. Jamie you were always looking forward with a smile and I for one always received energy that you always gave to those around you. I for one will miss you dearly. You will never be gone just as long as I have a memory of you. I found two things in life: Smile and enjoy what Gods gives you. And love around us all is what gives us strength. You were strength to all those that loved you. I'll miss you dearly. I know that God is laughing and enjoying your smile as we all did.
Date: 8/20/2004 2:12:12 PM



Name: Jo-Ann Hidrogo
Email:
Comments: Another Goodbye Jamie On my way, to say goodbye, dusted off words found, tangled in time's web, waiting for a season, that never would arrive, at my doorstep was a child, long ago, knocking softly, that child was you, some memories are, forever, like a stone, that the ocean splashes, on a day of sun, shining, then gone, you casted beauty, on this world, the kind that lasts, in mind and heart, sweet earthly momentos, moments from a dream. Jo-Ann Hidrogo
Date: 8/12/2004 10:13:07 PM



Name: Shirley Ward Mullen
Email: smullen@pacbell.net
Comments: I was saddened to learn of the passing of Jamie. I was a coworker with Jamie at Cooley over 14 years ago and still remember her wonderful bright smile. I learned from reading these posts of the many lives that Jamie touched and influenced. My sympathy to her family and friends.
Date: 8/7/2004 1:13:54 PM



Name: Jennifer Melerski
Email: onesfuzzi@aol.com
Comments: James I just want to say thank you, I know you were watching over Sarah yesterday.
Date: 7/27/2004 10:00:55 PM



Name: Lynda Gill
Email: lgill@wsgr.com
Comments: Jamie, There is not a person in the world more loved than you. Your children are such a tribute to your love and guidance, and your strength has been instilled in them. Your legacy to your family and all who called you their friend, are wonderful, loving memories of you, your kindness and your sense of fun. You will never fade in anyone's heart or mind.
Date: 7/26/2004 4:14:38 PM



Name: Valerie
Email:
Comments: I never met Jamie, but I can see that she was a wonderful woman and touched the lives of many. What a beautiful smile. Visiting this website and reading all the loving comments has touched my heart in a way that words cannot describe.
Date: 7/21/2004 5:13:32 PM



Name: Linda
Email: boriqua117@hotmail.com
Comments: We only met a few times, but each one was full of life and fun. I am blessed that I received the touch of such a loving individual - her smile and laughter will stay with me always. Thank you Jamie.
Date: 7/21/2004 2:17:29 PM



Name: Noreen Calehuff
Email: noreencalehuff@netscape.net
Comments: Dearest Jamie, You have been such an inspiration to all of us in the family, your friends, the neighborhood, and the community. You faced your cancer with tremendous strength and courage. You remained positive throughout great physical pain. You amazed us all with your grace and love of life. It was so difficult to say goodbye but we have solace knowing you are at peace and no longer suffering. As I walk around the house I see constant reminders of you in the presents you gave us from past Christmas and birthdays. We have many memories of you here that will last a lifetime. Jamie, you 'upped the bar' for all of us by your great taste in decorating, your flair for entertaining, and of course, your quest for fine wines. I now give myself permission to reach for the blouse at Chico's or the bottle of wine I really want, in your honor! I can see your smile over my shoulder. I wonder how we will face the holidays without your light and laughter. Jamie, you have left a wonderful legacy for all of us who loved you. Missing you, Noreen and family.
Date: 7/19/2004 4:48:46 PM



Name: Nicole Antoinette
Email:
Comments: Mama. You are the best, I could not have asked for anything more than what you provided me with over the last 20 years. You guided me in the right direction; I intend to make you proud of me. The love and comfort you have given to me is enough to carry on forever and that�s what I plan on doing. You may have left us a lot earlier than anyone ever imagined, but you will live on through each and everyone of us you touched. As you all know my mom was a remarkable woman! She made everyone welcomed, whether it was her friends or the kids� friends...she would laugh and joke with them, talk and respect. Most of you probably know how much our family loved going to the beach; my mom would round up the clan and down to the beach we would go. Sometimes it would be a day trip others a stay over, but no matter what we always had fun. The car would be full of ice chests, footballs and baseballs, bats, gloves, volleyballs, boogie boards. While growing up all moms kids played sports...I played fast pitch softball for ten years, Max and Mitch have both been active in baseball and football for a number of years each. I remember all of us kids and mom went down to the beach and we were tossing around a football...I was amazed at how perfect my mom could throw a spiral. The boys now know where they picked up there talents for football. There were a numerous amount of children my mom had touched and loved so dearly almost as if they were one of her own. It made me feel so wonderful knowing that my mom had such a motherly instinct, other kids would call and talk with my mom or many of you know our neighbors one of the little girls thought Jamie�s band-aids fixed all not just any band-aid, it was just my mom she made everyone feel better emotionally and physically. I know all of this first hand I have experienced all the superb things my mom has accomplished in my lifetime. I will never forget I was diagnosed with endometriosis in October of 2002, I was extremely sick. I had been in and out of the hospital almost every other day receiving my nutrients through an IV. Meanwhile my mom had been diagnosed with breast cancer stage 4, she had sat us three kids down and told us that she went to the doctors because she had found a lump...immediately I started to sob. Once the conversation carried on for another twenty seconds or so Max began to really taken what was going on and he began to cry, Mitchie still a little young to completely understand was left a little confused. Mom staying strong in hard situations doesn't shock any of us and that is exactly how she presented herself, choking up a tinny bit she muttered, �it�s ok, I am going to go in for some treatments and we will see from there, but everything is going to be ok." She began her treatments which made her very tired. When I got news that I was going to have surgery, I wanted to tell my mom because I was scared, but I didn't want her to have to stress. Of course I had to tell her nobody could tell me it was going to be ok except my mom, she reassured me as always. When I awoke sitting at the foot of my hospital bed was my mom, sick and weakened herself, she found the strength to be there for her kids. She has been to 85% of the boys sporting events since she was diagnosed, she aimed to please her kids and make them happy as she achieved. Our last family trip took place this past April; my Mom, Max, Mitch and I went down to Palm Desert to visit some family and relax. We gathered up all the kids and ventured to a water park one day, when we returned to my Auntie Patti's where we were staying we showered and hung out and vegged. With my hair wet I looked at mom and asked her to braid my hair, I sat on the ground in between moms legs as she quickly french braided my hair, she had braided my hair for the first time in preschool and she never stopped. I had moved back home to be with my mom and care for her and my brothers, for the first two weeks my room was not ready so I slept with my mom every night. One night sticks out in my head...we were cuddled up in the middle of the bed together and trying hard to hide it I started to cry thinking about my mom and why does it have to happen to my mom. My mom cradled me as if I were her little new born. She always told me know matter how old you are you will always be my baby. That�s why every night I close my eyes I look up at you in the big blue sky and tell you I Love You! Because I know you are still watching over your three little ones and still providing a guiding light. �You Are My Sunshine My Only Sunshine You Make Me Happy When Skies Are Gray You'll Never Know Dear How Much I Love You, So Please Don't Take My Sunshine Away ..." that was our song when I was a little girl ridding with my mommy every morning on her way to drop me off at school we would sing that song to each other. I will always remember that song and one day hopefully I can carry that down to a tradition with my own kids. I Love You so very Much! And miss you greatly. Love Always Your Daughter XOXOXOXO Thank You for all you have done for me!
Date: 7/19/2004 3:40:57 PM



Name: Lee Kite
Email: lkite@hewm.com
Comments: What a lovely tribute to a lovely lady. The photos are simply stunning and her smile so beautiful. This shows what she meant to so many people. She will be greatly missed. Lee
Date: 7/18/2004 11:07:45 PM



Name: Phyllis Duckworth
Email:
Comments: Thank you for sharing Jamie's tribute. She will be missed by all who knew her. The love and fond memories of Jamie will live on forever in the hearts of her beloved parents, husband, and children, family and friends. Love and Prayers Phyllis Duckworth
Date: 7/15/2004 4:36:51 PM



Name: The Russo Family
Email:
Comments: The heavens have gained another angel!! God Bless all of you in this time of mourning. Jaime's smile & positive attitude will live on in all of us. Our thoughts & prayers are will you. God Bless, The Russo's
Date: 7/15/2004 2:05:00 PM



Name: Nate DeFrance
Email: Natedog2828@aol.com
Comments: JAMIE The day has started without you And we are all so sad But its time to remember The good times we had You were the greatest woman ever So beautiful and so sweet Your life was taken By something you could not defeat When the day started without you So many tears were shed We all saw the same beautiful picture Of Jamie in our head The day has started without you And you will be missed so much For your journey was not over There were lives still to be touched It was time for you to go You went with love and trust But now you must go to heaven And wait for all of us Your name is being called From the angels from above I just want to thank you For giving me your love The day has ended without you But you are never gone We love you forever And your spirit will always be lived on
Date: 7/15/2004 3:36:19 AM



Name: Susan
Email: sp1pine@aol.com
Comments: I met Jamie through my friend/her neighbor, Laura. She was always a joy to be around at the various neighborhood parties. Whenever I saw her she was wearing a big smile. I am so sorry to hear about her passing. She will truly be missed. Blair, Cody and myself all send love and prayers to her family and friends.
Date: 7/14/2004 11:19:41 PM



Name: Margaret
Email:
Comments: {from the Welsh poet,Dylan Thomas} "Do not go gentle into that dark night...Rage,rage against the dying of the light..." and rage she did! Our Jamie was a valiant warrior, a courageous hero, and a champion who never surrendered! When her ravaged body finally slept, her radiant spirit was triumphant and free! Jamie remains with us, forever!
Date: 7/14/2004 10:01:33 PM



Name: margaret
Email:
Comments:
Date: 7/14/2004 9:41:34 PM



Name: Terri
Email:
Comments: I couldn't take my eyes off of Jamie's smile in all of her pictures in the photo gallery. I lost my sister to breast cancer, and my heart goes out to Jamie's family members. I pray that we can find a cure to this dreadful cancer.
Date: 7/14/2004 11:50:32 AM



Name: Katie Haisley
Email: KatieHaisley@aol.com
Comments: Jeff and Nicole, I was walking in the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer Sunday and read a wonderful tribute to a young, beautiful woman. It took me a minute to realize I knew this person, and she was once a close friend. The rest of the Walk took on a whole new meaning. Not sure if you two would remember me, but I was married to a Jeff and have a daughter named Nicole. Nicole and Nicole were best friends until we moved to Folsom in 1989. I was rocked when I saw Jaime's picture and heard of her passing. My heart breaks for your family...lots of tears have been shed for you in the last 24 hours. If I can be of any support, please let me know. Love, Katie
Date: 7/12/2004 11:42:21 PM



Name: Heidi Campbell
Email: jafra2c@msn.com
Comments: Psalm 23: " The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me to lie down in green pastures: He leads me beside the still waters. He restoreth my soul: He leads me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me. Thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil, my cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord FOREVER." To Jamie's family.. My hope is that you will have peace in knowing that Jamie is pain free, disease free, and residing in the loving arms of Jesus. Sincerely, a sister in Christ.
Date: 7/12/2004 4:44:50 PM



Name: Sherry Manriquez Cusimano
Email: tattooc@peoplepc.com
Comments: There are NO words that I could possibly say that would express my shock, sorrow, and sympythy. I briefly met Jaime through my brother (Gil) and his wife Karen at my nephew James baseball and Football games. Everybody always had great things to say about her.(Especially Gil and Karen )I was diagnosed with cancer 1 year ago.I never let it bother me but this really hit home, since I just saw her about 2 months ago. And she looked as great as she did the first time I met her. How'd of thought.I see your family is very strong and this is a GREAT site. My BEST of EVERYTHING to you and your family. Sherry Manriquez Cusimano
Date: 7/12/2004 12:51:36 PM



Name: Darlene Russell
Email: litethebest@aol.com
Comments: I want to wish Blessings upon your family, Jamie's childeren, and all of Jamie's friends. I last saw Jamie in April, she looked MARVELOUS! Even though she was on daily shots she was looking forward to her trip to Mexico! When I first looked at Jamie's website that was forwarded to me from someone more SPECIAL to me than she knows, there was barely 100 hits. Now over 7000--that should tell you something about Jamie and the people she touched. I barely knew Jamie, but some of the people I care about knew her Very well. My prayers are with all of you. We need to stop spending trillions to go to Mars and stop CANCER first! Something that is REALLY Advantagous to the human race. I'm so sorry for your loss and want to do something - I am hosting a fundraiser in Jamie's name August 8 11-2pm. All proceeds go to Breast Cancer Foundation and her Childrens Trust Funds. 408-644-0808 "Jamie's Candle Lady"
Date: 7/11/2004 1:52:37 AM



Name: Dani and Dan Johnston
Email: danimj@pacbell.net
Comments: To Jamie's Family, We are deeply sorry for your loss. Jamie was such a marvelous person. We became friends with Jamie when we both had the privelege to work with her at Cooley for several years in the 90's. We have great memories of bowling on Fridays at lunchtime, playing on Cooley's softball team, and serving on the TGI Cooley/Social Events Commitee with Jamie. If Cooley had an "It Girl", it was your Jamie. She was admired for her personality, beauty, brains and style. Jamie had a sparkle to her. She was also admired for her ability to balance a demanding job with raising three active children, and making it all look so effortless. It was clearly evident that Jamie's children were the most precious part of her life. She absolutely glowed with love and pride when she spoke about Nicole, Max and Mitch. Jamie will be terribly missed, but surely not forgotten. The way she lived her life was an inspiration, and we are better people for having known her. God bless you all during this difficult time. Fondly, Dani and Dan Johnston
Date: 7/9/2004 8:46:27 PM



Name: Doris Zimmermann
Email: dzimmermann@wsgr.com
Comments: To Jamie's Family: I just got a phone call from a friend and heard that our beautiful Jamie was called up to heaven. I wish I could have been with you at the memorial service but know that you are all still in my prayers and thoughts. I share the ache in your heart but know that our memories of the wonderful person she was will lift that ache and keep her in our hearts forever. I feel so honored to have been a part of Jamie's life and meet so many of her friends and family. You have all my love and support. I hope to talk to you as soon as I can remove the lump from my throat. Love, Doris
Date: 7/9/2004 1:52:59 PM



Name: Meredith Houghtelling
Email: sbeauty23@aol.com
Comments: Dear Nicole and Family, Thank you so much for sharing this page with all of us. From the pictures and the things those who knew her wrote, I can tell you that to me Jamie seemed to be a beautiful person both on the inside and out. The few times I spoke with her on the phone she was always very kind. There is a specific picture of Jamie and a friend on a dancefloor that really moved me. She has lost all her hair, but yet the smile on her face is so brilliant and beautiful that she shines like and angel. It inspires me to see the strength and life in someone fighting such a battle, and it reminds me to cherish every moment. I thank you for that reminder. Nicole, my hope for you and your family is that you can take some comfort in knowing that you have that beautiful angel looking over you every day. Please know that we are all here for you if you need us.
Date: 7/9/2004 11:38:50 AM



Name: Pamela Compton
Email: compton.pamela@dorsey.com
Comments: You know, if you believe in this kind of stuff, I would swear I saw Jamie today. I was walking in downtown Seattle from the bus to work and there, from the back, was the image of Jamie. I nearly dropped what I was carrying. Naturally, when the person turned around, it wasn't Jamie, but maybe the spirit of Jamie visits us in different ways to say, "I'm okay..." It felt really good! BTW, the pictures of all of you beautiful! Hello to my dear friends; I'm glad you were there with Jamie and her family. You were an incredible and brave team. xo
Date: 7/8/2004 8:56:30 PM



Name: Barbara Mack
Email: 1BMACK@COMCAST.NET
Comments: Dear Betty I was so sorry to hear about Jamie. Leona let me know and I was glad she was able to come give some support. Take Care!
Date: 7/8/2004 6:27:19 PM



Name: Allie
Email:
Comments: MAX- I am so sorry about your mom passing! I wish i could do something to help you get through the pain, but all that i can do is give you my support and love. I will miss her very much. Love you all!
Date: 7/8/2004 5:49:58 PM



Name: Gigi Farid-Anwar
Email: tanwar@sbcglobal.net
Comments: To Jamie's Family, I am walking for the first time with the 3-Day walk for my mother and courageous people like Jamie.I did not have the privilege of meeting Jamie but I am sure she will be missed by all.My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Date: 7/8/2004 5:23:04 PM



Name: Lynn Petra Nelson
Email: lynpetran@aol.com
Comments: Dearest Araujo family, My name is Lynn, and I will be walking as a "Warming Hut Hottie" and breast cancer survivor in the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer this weekend. I just wrote Jamie's name on my breast cancer walk tee-shirt. Although I didn't have the joy of knowing Jamie I will carry her spirit with me in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful photos and Jamie's courageous spirit.
Date: 7/8/2004 1:52:21 PM



Name: Joni Bringhurst
Email:
Comments: Dear Family and Friends of Jamie, Although we have never met, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I am walking in the AVON Walk for the first time this year for people like Jamie and my friend Karen. Thank you for sharing Jamie�s wonderful life�what an incredible person she was. With love and respect, Joni Bringhurst
Date: 7/8/2004 1:33:32 PM



Name: Araujo Family
Email:
Comments: Jeff, Nicole, Max and Mitch, we are so sorry to hear of Jamie's passing. I have been in constant touch with Sarah over the past couple years since leaving Cooley and I was so sorry to hear that she was battling breast cancer. I had hoped and prayed she would be this terrible disease. I worked with Jamie for many, many years at Cooley and remember vividly when I was new seeing her in our neighborhood talking to Sarah and admiring her beauty, professionalism and energy. I wanted to be her friend as did everyone who met her. She was always dressed to a T and hair and makeup perfect and smiling. I remember all the Company BBQ's and Cooley partys and Sam and Jeff playing horseshoes while the girls would hang out and talk. The last time we saw Jamie was at Karen's wedding and she was having a fabulous time dancing and visting with friends. The pictures of her on the website prove that she was living life to the fullest until the end and I admire her so much for that. What a role model and inspiration to us all. I am so fortunate to have been a friend of Jamie's. I wish I could have seen her or been in touch with her during her brave battle. I know she is in a wonderful place where she can watch over all of us and is no longer in pain. I can't wait to see her again! You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love, The Araujo's (Lisa, Sam, Zack & Jordyn)
Date: 7/8/2004 1:18:22 PM



Name: Alice and John DeMarco
Email:
Comments: Jamie - Beautiful, Beautiful, Jamie - With the Beautiful Smile and Laughter, always so Sweet and Kind to everyone. I remember when you were in your teens, you were Gorgeous! Always so happy, and you never changed. When I heard of your bout with cancer I prayed night and day for you Jamie - That the good Lord would spare you, this world needs people like you. But, I guess God needed you more. I know you are in peace now. You are a special Angel in Heaven watching over all of us, Your Parents, Husband and Beautiful Children. God Bless You Jamie! Love You, Alice and John DeMarco
Date: 7/8/2004 12:16:28 PM



Name: Carl Weddle
Email:
Comments: Hi Jim & Betty, I am very sad to hear about Jaime's passing but as Donna mentioned, she lived life to the fullest. I know you are very sad but proud to have had a daughter like Jaime. God bless you. Fondly, Carl Weddle
Date: 7/8/2004 11:46:44 AM



Name: Greg Stryker
Email:
Comments: Dear Calehuff family, I am a friend of Max and we have not known each other for very long, but during the course of our friendship I find that Max is an excellent and trustworthy friend. I feel so sad for him and I think that no matter what changes may occur in your life Max, you will always remain who you are, a strong and inspirational friend. I will pray for your mom and from what I have heard about your mom I understand that she was and still remains to be a great mother. Just remember Max that after someone whom one cares about passes away that person does not leave their loved ones. Your mother will always be in a place where everything continues to remain, in your heart. My deepest sympathies, sincerely your friend Greg Stryker
Date: 7/8/2004 11:46:06 AM



Name: Mary Tumakay
Email:
Comments: I'm gonna miss your smile. You always smiled. I never saw you, not even once, not smiling. Jamie, rest in peace with God. I am very much honored to have known a very strong and very very BEAUTIFUL human being. Mary Tumakay
Date: 7/8/2004 11:45:41 AM



Name: Pat Sweeney
Email:
Comments: I knew Jamie through business, only, and although I had never met her in person, it was always a pleasure to speak with her on the phone as she was always so very pleasant. Even when she was suffering, she seemed to put it aside and was more concerned about how it was affecting her work, her co-workers and Tench. I will keep Jamie, and her family, in my prayers. Pat Sweeney
Date: 7/8/2004 11:44:45 AM



Name: Lupe Fox
Email:
Comments: My thoughts and prayers are with you on the loss of Jamie may her beautiful memories help you through this difficult time. God Bless her children and her family. Lupe Fox
Date: 7/8/2004 11:44:19 AM



Name: Traci Foster
Email:
Comments: I didn't know Jamie personally but I am friends with Sarah Petty and Christine Giammona who knew her well. They expressed their love and admiration for Jamie and the struggles she went through. All the time, keeping a smile on her face and warmth in her heart. I am currently helping my Aunt raise donations so that she can participate in the Breast Cancer 3 Day walk in Arizona in October. I will pass on Jamie's picture to her so that she can honor her life while she walks for a cure. All my blessings and prayers to Jamie's family, Traci Foster
Date: 7/8/2004 11:43:44 AM



Name: Jo Ann Look (Dean)
Email:
Comments: I�m so sad I don�t know what to say. I�ve worked with Jamie here at Cooley Godward and will always remember her as a very kind, helpful and absolute sweet person. I was sad when she left our office and now I�m devastated ...what - breast cancer! How can this be? I still have my memory of her laughter and that will always remain with me. I will pray the Lord her soul to keep. Aloha Dear Friend, Jo Ann Look (Dean)
Date: 7/8/2004 11:43:15 AM



Name: Barbara Hill
Email:
Comments: I worked with Jamie for more than four years and am heartsick to think that she has been taken away from those who love her and need her. I will always remember her megawatt smile.
Date: 7/8/2004 11:42:47 AM



Name: Simone Coxe
Email:
Comments: Hello: Jamie was truly an optimistic, inspiring, kind, and wonderful person. I am so sorry for your loss, for all of our loss.... The pictures you have of her on the web site are beautiful and full of life. With love and sympathy, Simone Coxe
Date: 7/8/2004 11:41:54 AM



Name: Gloria Taylor
Email:
Comments: I had the pleasure of working with Jamie when she was at Cooley Godward and got to know her when she would come to the San Francisco office to work on transactions and through our phone calls. Jamie was a lovely person and she had the most wonderful smile -- she spoke often of her children and I know they were her pride and joy. What a loss for all of us - but I know she dances with the angels now and we'll all see her again on the other side when the time comes. I send my deepest and sincere condolences to all her family members. Gloria Taylor Cooley Godward, San Francisco office
Date: 7/8/2004 11:41:26 AM



Name: Anna Pope
Email:
Comments: Dear Jamie's family: I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I had the pleasure of working with Jamie in our Palo Alto office for a number of years. Her humor, kindness and sweetness always lightened the load of those around her. Please accept my deepest condolences for this terrible loss. Anna Pope
Date: 7/8/2004 11:40:53 AM



Name: AhMoi Kim
Email:
Comments: Just received an email from the leader of the Contra Costa Canal Gals. I am broken hearted about the loss of such a young, vibrant woman to this dreadful disease. I did not have the privilege of meeting Jamie but by the look on her face in the pictures on her web page, I can only imagine how much I missed out on by not meeting her. I can only imagine the pain your family is going through but for any comfort this may offer - it is the living who feels the pain, Jamie no longer suffers. My thoughts and prayers go out to Jamie's family. Much love and aloha, AhMoi Kim Contra Costa Canal Gals
Date: 7/8/2004 11:39:56 AM



Name: Juliette Cody
Email:
Comments: My heart goes out to Jamie's family...she was a beautiful woman (inside and out as the pictures do show). Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. With deepest sympathy, Juliette Cody, Team Urban Dog Walkers
Date: 7/8/2004 11:39:08 AM



Name: Amelia
Email: ameliamogot@yahoo.com
Comments: Dearest Jamie - After attending your beautiful memorial, I found myself going through your website from beginning to end. I'm so glad we crossed paths again after Cooley (never mind that it was only through emails and voicemails) even if our intentions to get together for dinner never came to be. I searched through my email account for any/all emails from you and I had to post one from earlier this year. You are a STAR that is always shining bright even if you've physically left this world. I am comforted at the thought that you are at peace and in no pain. I wish you're family much love, courage, and strength during this difficult time. I have no doubt you will always watch over them. Thank you for being you. Hugs ~ Amelia -----Original Message----- From: Amelia Mogot [mailto:mogot@sofinnova.com] Sent: Thursday, February 19, 2004 9:21 AM To: Jamie Calehuff How are you doing my friend? Keeping up with the VC pace? -----Original Message----- From: Jamie Calehuff [mailto:Jamie@shv.com] Sent: Thu 2/19/2004 9:22 AM To: Amelia Mogot honey - this is a cake walk! how are you?
Date: 7/8/2004 1:49:34 AM



Name: David
Email: justdavid123@hotmail.com
Comments: A fallen tear in nameless flight knows not its path nor purpose And yet it speaks the words that only a saddened heart might hear true So small in one, and yet in company does it grow to tell a story of a life Within such noble birth do we find the meanings, the memories, and the answers we seek to fill our needed grasp The many voices rising amid the noise of unshared thoughts The silence that begs a word Let these echoes never fade A fallen tear in now-named flight, wears upon its glistened face, her smile
Date: 7/8/2004 1:36:34 AM



Name: KIM AND ASHLEY
Email: ADIDASgrl8@MAC.COM
Comments: JAIME AS WE CELEBRATED YOUR VERY SHORT LIFE TODAY I COULD ONLY THINK OF YOUR BRIGHT SMILE AND ENDLESS LOVE FOR NICOLE,MAX & MITCHIE. YOU ARE THE BEST MOM EVER AND THEY WILL NEVER FORGET YOU. YOU ALWAYS HAD STYLE AND GRACE EVEN DURING YOUR ILLNESS. YOU INSPIRE ME TO LIVE A FULLER LIFE , I HAVE LOST WAY TO MANY YOUNG FRIENDS TO BREAST CANCER, EACH TIME IT GETS HARDER AND MORE FRUSTRATING. THERE WILL BE A CURE SOON , I JUST WISH IT WOULD HAVE BEEN THERE FOR YOU. TO EVERYONE READING THIS ,PLEASE BUY THE POSTAGE STAMPS " FUND FOR THE CURE" AT YOUR LOCAL POST OFFICE IN SUPPORT FOR FIGHTING BREAST CANCER. THINK OF JAIME EVERY TIME YOU MAIL SOMETHING. WE WILL MISS YOU , IN OUR HEARTS FOREVER, KIM AND ASHLEY DOMROSE
Date: 7/7/2004 11:08:16 PM



Name: mary
Email: lazydaisy21686@yahoo.com
Comments: after attending jamie's memorial today, and hearing all the the beautiful things said about her by all of her family, friends and co-workers, there is no doubt in my mind that the world has truly lost one of the most loving and giving people i know. i only knew jamie through my cousins, but out of the few times i saw her i noticed that everyone just seemed to cling to her with that gorgeous smile and huge heart. she made friends wherever she went, even if it only was five minutes. i will always remember jamie, she was the most beautiful person i knew, inside and out.
Date: 7/7/2004 6:12:36 PM



Name: Dee Dee
Email: azlions1@qwest.net
Comments: I have never met Jamie. I read about her passing on the Breast Cancer 3-Day message board. My thoughts are with you all. We'll do all we can to eradicate this disease so other families don't have to suffer the loss that you're feeling. Heaven has too many angels - let's keep them here on earth.
Date: 7/7/2004 5:25:44 PM



Name: Dylan Matzen
Email:
Comments: Jamie was always nice to be around and she always made you feel good.I am sad about her leaving. She was a great team mom on my first year of football.She will be missed.
Date: 7/7/2004 2:03:34 PM



Name: Morgan Koehne
Email:
Comments: Jamie, i love you and miss you so much. You were such a big part of my life, practically my mom. im going to miss going to your house for bbq's and im definately going to miss seeing you at maxs football games with your cowbell. i remeber when i was in kindergarten and it was picture day, and you did my hair, i wanted it to look exactly like yours so i looked beautiful! you were my role model and i always looked up to you. im glad your in a better place and out of pain..i love you, mini me
Date: 7/7/2004 1:46:07 PM



Name: Marcie Balestrini
Email: sweetsmmb@yahoo.com
Comments: Nicole &Family- My thoughts and love are with you all on this day and every. Wow Nic, it seems like just yesterday we were getting ready for homecoming and your mom was doing our hair in braids and helping us get all done up and ready! Remember we would beg her to let us have sleep-overs on school nights? and she would always end up saying yes. Who would have thought that in such sort time her beauty and radiance would be absent from our lives?. Well I really can't fathom what you guys are going through or feeling with the loss of your mother..And such a wonderful mother she was at that! I just want you to know that I'm here for you whenever you need me..and only 10 doors down! Brent and I love you and your bothers very much and realize you are some of the strongest friends we've ever known. May God be with you and hold you close in this time of need. I can't wait for the day when we will see your Mom again, and I'll be right by your side till then!! Friends-Forever! Love, Marce
Date: 7/7/2004 1:43:26 PM



Name: Matzen Family
Email:
Comments: Dear Calehuff Family, We are so sad to hear of Jaime's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Jaime was such an inspiration to us all. She truly lived life to it's fullest. Her huge smile was only matched by her huge heart. She was such a beautiful person. We were so glad to have gotten a chance to know her. Lots of love, Jim, Sue, Tyler and Dylan Matzen
Date: 7/7/2004 1:25:24 PM



Name: David & Kathy Guzman
Email: visionsroof@yahoo.com
Comments: Jeff, we are so sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathies to you and the kids. We seemed to have lost touch with each other over the years, but I can still remember Jamies smile and kind spirit. She was a beautiful woman with so many gifts. She always made us feel wecomed in her home and was a joy to be around. Our time together just hanging out at your house for dinner and drinks, and more drinks(jamie loved her wine) and good company will always be remembered. We feel very lucky to have known Jamie and will miss her. If you need anything please don't hesitate to ask, we are here for you. Your friends David & Kathy Guzman
Date: 7/7/2004 12:56:31 PM



Name: The May family
Email: ovilee@aol.com
Comments: To Calefhuff family, Betty and Howard and Lynn and John, I am so sorry for your loss. It breaks my heart to think of what you are going through now. Jamie was such a wonderful fun loving person full of life and love! When I think of her I think of her huge smile and the fact that she was always laughing. I would also think Wow! Tall blonde and beautiful! Not fair! She was every bit as beautiful inside as she was outside. I know she is watching over everyone now from heaven. She will be missed. Love to all of you.
Date: 7/7/2004 12:09:07 PM



Name: Alex Johns
Email: Alexis.Johns@fcc.gov
Comments: My deepest sympathies to Jamie's family. I hadn't seen Jamie in many years, but remember her bright smile and infectious laugh well from my time at Cooley. So sorry to hear about her passing, but this site is an absolutely lovely tribute to her.
Date: 7/7/2004 11:55:16 AM



Name: Carole Hearn
Email: hearncm@cooley.com
Comments: My thoughts and prayers go out to Jamie's family and friends. The tributes to Jamie say it all - family, friends, co-workers, acquaintances and friends of the family all sharing their feelings and memories about Jamie. I will never forget Jamie's smile, kind words and infectious laughter. The pictures of Jamie brought back so many memories of wonderful conversations during the 14 years at Cooley. Jamie will certainly be missed by all but we will never forget the beautiful person, inside and out, her kind and caring heart and larger than life smile. Jamie's sparkle will forever brighten the heavens.
Date: 7/7/2004 11:11:51 AM



Name: Linda Wester
Email: weskoe@pacbell.net
Comments: I first met Jamie at the school. We were both walking out dogs (of course Jamie had both of hers!). Jamie was pregnant with Mitchie, in fact she was in labor. But the dogs needed a run and she had just enough time to take care of them before she went to the hospital. That was how Jamie was - she always made sure things were taken care of; kids, dogs, neighbors, house, job; and she did it all with a smile. Jamie; what are we going to do on Halloween - we are missing one of our "Witches of Woodford"? What will we do on Christmas - who will coordinate the Christmas trees? Who will take over the neighborhood bar-b-ques, the beach trips, the Costco runs? You were the driving force of our neighborhood and we miss you. We will keep things going because of you but it won't be the same. I'm glad you are in a better place but I wish I could turn back time. I love you! Linda
Date: 7/7/2004 10:37:53 AM



Name: Mike Lincoln
Email: mlincoln@cooley.com
Comments: When we opened Cooley's Virginia office in 1999, the firm asked Jamie if she would help us get the new office off the ground and she happily agreed to get on a plane and come out and roll up her sleeves. Jamie really made things happen and, though the effort involved long hours and hard work, she did it all with grace and humor and a smile on her face. We were all newcomers to the firm and Jamie won our hearts. God bless, Jamie.
Date: 7/7/2004 9:59:41 AM



Name: Howard Myers
Email: hbmyers@comcast.net
Comments: Jamie, Jamie, Jamie, What will we do without you? Being married to your mom the last 16 years, I have gotten to know you and love you. In spite of everything it is still hard to believe you are really gone and we will never see you again. Your high spirits and good cheer are infectious. There are many lights in our lives, some brighter than others. We just lost one of our brightest lights, and you will be dearly missed by many. Now I know for whom they invented the phrase, �The good die young�. In addition to not seeing you throughout the year, how will we have holidays without you? As Lynn said, we will honor your memory and your spirit at the gatherings, but it won�t be the same. Nothing will be the same, it will all be different. We will go on, because that is what we do; but you leave a big hole that can only be filled with love and memories. We are not ready to let you go Jamie, but it is not our choice to make. Jamie, God bless you and keep you.
Date: 7/7/2004 7:23:44 AM



Name: Travis Velo
Email:
Comments: I love you mommy, and your goign to be missed by me and many others very much. I hope your happier where you are now and i know youll always be watching over me. I love you so much and im going to miss you.
Date: 7/7/2004 4:15:26 AM



Name: John
Email: John55@aol.com
Comments: this is by far the coolest website i have ever seen in my entire life ever.
Date: 7/7/2004 2:04:22 AM



Name: John Demertzis and Family
Email: Demertzis@aol.com
Comments: Dear Jeff and Family: We are deeply saddened to hear of Jamie's passing. Our prayers are with you, Nicole and the Boys. May God grant you the strength to continue her legacy. She was a wonderful person. Take care of your family. If there is anything we can do to ease your pain, please let us know (268-7645). Love, John Demertzis and the rest of Kiki's Family
Date: 7/7/2004 2:03:14 AM



Name: The Goudreau Family
Email: goudreaux@aol.com
Comments: A loss of this magnitude is mourned with her passing but it should also be celebrated with the energy and love Jamie lived her life with. We are sorry for the loss and we will pray for Jamie and the loved ones she left behind.
Date: 7/7/2004 1:42:31 AM



Name: Debbie and Lamont Johnson
Email: dej37@aol.com
Comments: We are so sorry for the families lost. Jamie was such a ray of sunshine. She always had a smile on her face. Jamie and I were the snack shack cordinators for the past two years. She was alway pleasant and positive, even when I wasn't feeling so positive. She could also get my husband to go to the store for us when I could not. He could not say no to her. Jamie I am going to miss you so much. I am so glad that I got to meet you here on this earth. Keep smiling down on the rest of us. We will think of you at every football game we are ever at. God Bless your family during this difficult time. Your friend, Debbie
Date: 7/7/2004 12:16:14 AM



Name: The McCormick Family
Email: mmm59@pacbell.net
Comments: Jamie was a great lady and will be greatly missed. She was a close friend, neighbor and a great team Mom. Jeff, Nicole, Max and Mitch, please know our thoughts and prayers are with you. The McCormick Family
Date: 7/6/2004 11:16:29 PM



Name: Uncle Ben and Aunt Ginny
Email: calehug2@yahoo.com
Comments: We have many loving thoughts and enduring memories from Jamie's warm hospitality! Her kind and gentle spirit was felt when near her or speaking with her on the phone. Wish we did not live so far away! All our love!
Date: 7/6/2004 7:08:35 PM



Name: Amie
Email: Agrillo@foundrynet.com
Comments: I met Jamie through Wendy, and I feel like I�ve known her along time. Heard stories of her numerous and sometimes wild adventures with the girls and how wonderful, exuberant person she was and she was more concerned about others than herself and how she made everyone feel at ease and made sure everyone was having a good time. She valued her friends and of course her family. No one can ever replace Jamie but we can emulate how she loved life and live to the fullest because you never know what tomorrow may bring. I remember her smile and that infectious laugh & admire her courage. To her family and friends, I mourn your lost and may God give you the strength to live on. Our thougts and prayers are with you. Lance and Amie Flodin
Date: 7/6/2004 5:34:50 PM



Name: Lynne
Email:
Comments: �The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want. He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.� (Psalm 23:1-4) Jamie- God is with you, His beloved child. I pray that you feel the comfort of His presence. The hope we have in Jesus Christ is life: "I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will live, even though he dies; and whoever lives and believes in me will never die.� He promises to wipe away every tear from your eyes and take away your pain. You have blessed me with your beauty � both inside and out. Your smile and laughter are sorely missed at the office. May you be surrounded by the love and laughter of your family and friends. In His Love, Lynne
Date: 7/6/2004 5:30:49 PM



Name: Maureen Olson
Email:
Comments: Dear Jamie's family an friends( especially her Hottie friends that I walked with last year). I am so sorry to hear that Jamie lost her fight against breast cancer. I grew to know her through her great hottie friends. My prayers are with you all. She was a special person who touched many lives. Her name is on my tee shirt. I know she was special because she had such speical friends. Love, Maureen Olson (Avon Walk 03).
Date: 7/6/2004 5:30:15 PM



Name: Bobbie Jean (Ravalin) Kilby
Email:
Comments: Hello Jamie I really like your wed site. You are a beautiful woman. I know your mom from the Sunnyvale High Alumni meetings. I was in the class of 1964. Go Jets!! I send my prayers to you and to your whole family. I don't know what else to say. But I felt the need to say something! Thinking of you bobbie jean (ravalin) kilby
Date: 7/6/2004 5:29:32 PM



Name: Jessie and Michelle
Email:
Comments: Many sympathy wishes to Jaimie�s family. My step-mom Leona told me that Jaimie has passed away. With much love to Betty and her family! Love, Jessie and Michelle
Date: 7/6/2004 5:28:18 PM



Name: Doreen Allen
Email:
Comments: To the Calehuff family: I only worked with and knew Jamie briefly but she was always smiling and enjoyed life so much. Her laugh was infectious and her smile inviting. I am so glad that she has touch my life and she will surely be missed byeverone who knew and loved her. My GOD keep you in his graces and bestow love and comfort upon your family. "Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy." - Eskimo Legend
Date: 7/6/2004 5:27:43 PM



Name: The Davis family
Email:
Comments: Jamie will be missed dearly by all who knew her. She was always a bright and shining star of person. We are shoked beyond belief of the news of her passing. Our thoughts go out to her dear family. God bless them at this time of sorrow but give them peace and joy of her loving memory. The Davis family, Tim, Lee, Daniel, Gabriel, and Rachel
Date: 7/6/2004 5:26:22 PM



Name: Melba
Email:
Comments: TOJAMMIE'S FAMILY, I'M SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS, MY HEART IS WITH YOU, I'M JUDY AND FREDS SISTER IN LAW IN GLENDORA. GOD BLESS AND WATCH OVER ALL OF YOU. LOVE MELBA.
Date: 7/6/2004 5:25:55 PM



Name: Patti Hallead
Email:
Comments: I didn't know Jamie. I live in San Jose and happened to read the obituaries today. I was touched by what was written, and by what I saw on her website. What a courageous and loving person she was. I am sorry for all those who loved her, to lose her, but feel solace in the fact that you were blessed by her presence. Rest in peace, Jamie.
Date: 7/6/2004 5:25:32 PM



Name: Ren� Godwin
Email:
Comments: Jamie you will be missed by all of us. May God keep you safe up there with him. I know you will be looking down on us and doing your damnedness to keep us all safe. Rene
Date: 7/6/2004 5:24:28 PM



Name: Susan Dixon
Email:
Comments: I am a friend of Jamie's mother and have been praying for Jamie and the family during this time. I know her loss is a great sadness for all who knew her and for those of us that have prayed for her. Now that a part of us has moved on it is up to us to honor Jamie and to live everyday to the fullest. Take Care & God Bless, Susan Dixon
Date: 7/6/2004 5:24:00 PM



Name: Terri Hall
Email:
Comments: HI Betty and Jeff, The web site of all the picture and the wonderful words about your daughter is just beautiful. She sure was a beautiful woman. I am so sorry for your loss. If you ever need comfort from someone who has been through this time, I'm here! God bless you and your family and may God give you strength to bear this sorrow. Love, Terri Hall
Date: 7/6/2004 5:22:54 PM



Name: Mr. Becker
Email:
Comments: Hi Mitch, I'm so sorry to hear the news about your mom. I think about you all the time, and I hope you know I'm always there for you. I will see you at the service on Wednesday. Take care, Your friend, Mr. Becker
Date: 7/6/2004 5:22:02 PM



Name: Veronnica Tesch
Email: vtesch@exponent.com
Comments: My thoughts and prayers are with Jamie's friends and family during this difficult time. Be assured that she is suffering no longer and is in a much better place now. I had the chance to work with Jamie for a few years back at Cooley and she was an inspiration! She was a loyal, dedicated, bubbly, helpful person - I admired the fact that she always had a smile on her face!
Date: 7/6/2004 5:05:03 PM



Name: Michael Pitman
Email: mpitman@controllinginterest.com
Comments: Jamie we already miss you a lot. It was great see you at the kids' games as you always got the crowd in a positive and light-hearted spirit with those "Come on Handsome" cheers! The good are the first to be called and that's why we could enjoy your friendship and shining light for only a little while. We are still counting on your memory and guidance to show us how to live so don't forget we still need you a lot and we will all be together again when time is right.
Date: 7/6/2004 3:56:54 PM



Name: Dennis
Email:
Comments: To the Calehuff Family: We wish to express out deepest sympathies to your family at such a sad time in your lives. Your mom was such a light and bubbly personality to be around, and with that infectious laugh of hers, it was always a joy to be in her presence. She was definitley a ray of light and touched many peoples lives with her effervesence. If we all had moms like that, this world would definitely be a better place to live in. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most trying time, if there is anything we can do to help we will always be available. Dennis Carlson and family and the entire crew at D. Carlson Construction, Inc.
Date: 7/6/2004 3:36:48 PM



Name: John Turman
Email: john.turman@hds.com
Comments: Jamie you will always be remembered as a special person. Someone that you could always count on to take on the toughest jobs at CVYF or at Branham Hills with a smile on your face. Always the first to volunteer to be the team mom, or the snack shack coordinator. You always handled yourself with grace, style, and aplomb, even after you found out that you were sick. If you were in pain it never showed on your face or in your temperment. We all owe you a great debt of gratitude for all the good that you have done for the kids whose lives you've touched. My boys Jim and Joe, both thought that you were a great mom to Max and Mitch. You were always a shining star on game day setup in the mornings, I never saw you grouchy even once at 5:30AM on a Sunday getting the snack shack ready to open for a full day of football. God loved you so much he took you early because he couldn't stand to not have you around Him. My heart goes out to Max and Mitch, and to Jeff. You are all in my prayers. With deepest sympathy, John Turman
Date: 7/6/2004 1:38:16 PM



Name: JACQUES SARDEN&FAMILY
Email: jacques.e.sarden@verizon.com
Comments: To all who know and love Jamie we extend our deepest sympathy. Please know that she is with all of you. On a personal level, Jamie always greeted me with a big smile and treated us like family. Her dedication to the kids will never be forgotten.
Date: 7/6/2004 1:34:19 PM



Name:
Email: DBlonde0723@AOL.COM
Comments: I remember meeting Jamie for the very first time when my son joined the mity mite team years ago and my daughter with Cheer. We hit it off so well. You even talked me into joining the board. You said they needed someone like me on it. :) Your heart was so big. From that moment on our friendship began. You will be missed so much. Our prayers go out to Jamie's family and her friends. She touched so many lives. God Bless. Love, The Olson Family
Date: 7/6/2004 1:08:36 PM



Name: Shab
Email: sdanesh@ceon.com
Comments: I met Jamie once at SHV office but had worked with her telephonically for 3 years and she was always pleasant and had such an uplifting spirit. My thoughts and prayers to her family but rest assured that she is no longer suffering but now is smiling down from heaven.
Date: 7/6/2004 12:53:00 PM



Name: Denise Odle
Email: denise.odle@apax.com
Comments: My son Jim Turman has been good friends with Max for quite a few years. Jim always said that Max's Mom is "really nice". I didn't know Jamie very well at all, but I could tell just from the brief conversations that I had with her at the baseball field, that she was a good person. My prayers are with her children who must miss her more than any one will ever know. Best regards, Denise Odle Jim and Joe Turman's Mom.
Date: 7/6/2004 12:38:02 PM



Name: Jesse &Jenn Cantu
Email: jwecantu@aol.com
Comments: With Heavy heart, our deepes Sympathy. To Jaimies family, may God see you through this. Boys you hold your heads up and know that you were blessed to have such a Wonderful person for a Mother. No doubt she will always be watching over you, with a big smile. never stop dreaming and striving to do your best. With Love. The Cantu Family
Date: 7/6/2004 12:11:10 PM



Name: The Hertler Family
Email: laura.hertler@concert.com
Comments: Dear Calehuff family, I am so sorry for your loss. I met Jamie only a few times and she always had a smile on her face. I wish I could have gotten to know her. Hold those wonderful memories in your heart and Jamie will never be gone. Scott, Laura, Scotty and Craig Hertler
Date: 7/6/2004 10:25:12 AM



Name: Robert Flores
Email:
Comments: First off id like to give my love and sympathy out to the Calehuff family and anyone who has ever met or known Jamie. She was a great person with a big smile and was always cheerful. She was a great mother to her kids and she is missed very much by everyone. But, she is now above us watching over us and in a much better place. You'll always be in my prayers Jamie and the Calehuff's. Much love, Robert
Date: 7/6/2004 3:49:56 AM



Name: Sheila Marie
Email: shetana_1973@yahoo.com
Comments: I did not get to know you in person Jamie. But through Leona and this guestbook did I get to know the wonderful caring person you were. Also I know you are an amazing angel watching over all that loved you. My deepest sympathy goes out to your family.
Date: 7/5/2004 4:22:06 PM



Name: The Adams Family
Email: Padams3329@aol.com
Comments: My sypathy goes out to the Calehuff family. We meet Jamie when my nephew Kyle joined the Mighty Mite team-my daughter and neice were cheerleaders. She made us feel so excepted. I didn't get to know Jamie as well as most but she still touched us all at every moment. I remember all the kids coming up to me and asking if we would buy a bracelet(to help save a wonderful person)I didn't know until last year that it was you. I did buy several bracelets that day. The hole team will miss you but you have a new team to help. I work with Breast cancer patients daily and you are an inspiration to all of us on and off the field. God Bless and peace be with you.
Date: 7/5/2004 1:07:51 PM



Name: Maribel Perea
Email: sfmp1@aol.com
Comments: With deepest sympathy and many kind thoughts for your family! I will be walking in your honored this weekend....
Date: 7/5/2004 12:49:33 PM



Name: PATTI PANDOLFO...AUNTIE PATTI
Email:
Comments: TO MY DEAR SWEET JAMIE, I REMEMBER THE WONDERFUL DAY YOU CAME INTO THIS WORLD. YOU WERE SO BEAUTIFUL AND SWEET,AND FOR THE NEXT 40 YEARS YOU NEVER CHANGED.YOU WERE NOT ONLY MY NEICE, I HAD THE HONOR AND PRIVILEGED TO BECOME YOUR GOD MOTHER.WE HELD A VERY SPECIAL BOND. YOU WERE AN AMAZING YOUNG LADY WHO WALKED THROUGH LIFE WITH COURAGE, GRACE, DIGNITY AND CLASS. I WILL FOREVER MISS YOUR SMILE, YOUR CONTAGIOUS LAUGHTER,I WILL MISS OUR LATE NIGHT TALKS ON THE TELEPHONE AND YOUR TRIPS TO VISIT AUNTIE NANA AND ME IN PALM DESERT. AS WELL AS I REMEMBER HOLDING YOU THE FIRST DAY YOU CAME INTO THE WORLD,I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE HONOR AND PRIVILEGE I FELT TO BEABLE TO HELP CARE FOR YOU TO THE END AS YOU TOOK YOUR LAST BREATH,I KISSED YOUR CHEEK AND SAID GOOD BYE. AS WE ALL FELT THE PAIN OF OUR LOSS, YOUR PAIN QUICKLY VANISHED.YOU MAY BE GONE FROM OUR SIGHT, BUT YOU WILL FOREVER STAY IN A SPECIAL PLACE IN MY HEART AND THE HEARTS OF ALL THAT KNEW YOU. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH SWEETIE..........LOVE AUNTIE PATTI
Date: 7/5/2004 12:37:08 PM



Name: Barbara Gilbert Shelton
Email: bussesace@sti.net
Comments: Oh that Jamie and her million-watt smile! I could be pulling every hair out of my head (Alan's billing, the timesheets, the Records system, oh my!!!)and then Jamie would walk into my office. We'd dispense with business and take just a minute to talk about real life. Jamie loved to talk about her family. The kids were really little then and she always had a funny sweet story about their escapades. I am so saddened that our world has lost this bright light. But in reading all these wonderful entries in her guestbook, I feel so blessed that there are so many of us that were touched by this woman who was joyfully beautiful both inside and out. We get to keep that part always and our hearts are warmer for it.
Date: 7/5/2004 12:10:30 PM



Name: Lis
Email:
Comments: Courage, fun, laughter and love come to mind. Smiles, hugs and a warm welcome for everyone at every event. You gave them to everyone without hesitation and encouraged all to join in. Your friendship with my sister has been a very special gift and I thank God she shared so many wonderful times with you. Your children reflect your light and love. Thank you for being you, and giving us all the honor to have spent times with you. Thank you for your courageous fight, and be well without pain knowing you are loved and missed very much. God bless you and prayers go to your children, husband, family and friends.
Date: 7/5/2004 3:18:16 AM



Name: Carole Lynne Heinen
Email:
Comments: I am going to miss the everyday things: waving to each other when she drove by, calling her up to order the neighborhood Christmas tree, and running into to each other at the nail place. When I asked her why she was getting her nails done she always had a great outting that she was going on with Jeff, her family, or her friends. She sure had a lot of awesome friends. Jamie knew how to live life to the fullest! She will be missed by everyone. Carole Lynne
Date: 7/4/2004 6:27:08 PM



Name: Dave and Novelle Vivit
Email: nsvivit@earthlink.net
Comments: Betty, Sincerest sympathy in the loss of your daughter. Jamie, when we look into the heavens, we will know that you are a beautiful star in the night sky. The Vivits
Date: 7/4/2004 6:17:37 PM



Name: Lori
Email: loriy@sbcglobal.net
Comments: I did not know Jamie but saw her website listed in the SJ News and was very touched by her website. I am convinced that Jamie is more alive than ever now that she has left her earthly life behind and she is probably still the life of the party in heaven. God bless your family.
Date: 7/4/2004 4:49:46 PM



Name: Nora & Besar Madzar
Email:
Comments: Mitch - We heard about your moms passing from Besnik and wanted to say how sorry we are. We wish we could be there for you, but know we are thinking of you constantly. Your mom was a great person and we will miss her a lot. Just know she will always be with you. Love, Nora and Besar
Date: 7/4/2004 2:47:19 PM



Name: Erika Chesnutis
Email:
Comments: To Jamie's family and friends: I have known Jamie for a very long time. When I heard about what happened, all I could think about is that she is truly gone and I'll never see her again. But then I thought that she wouldn't want us to be sad. Also, I know that she is in heaven and is watching over us and will always "be there" for everyone. Best wishes to your family, Love Erika.
Date: 7/4/2004 2:20:48 PM



Name: Melanie Chesnutis
Email: melbelqt94
Comments: To Mitchie, Max, and Nicole: I've known your mom since I was a baby. I've cried every night since I heard from my Aunt Linda about your mom. Then I think about how you all must feel and I feel even more sad. Even though she has gone to heaven, she is still with us now. Love, Mel
Date: 7/4/2004 2:16:41 PM



Name: Brendan Colin
Email: downside427@aol.com
Comments: I cannot put fourth in words how truly sorry i am. I was a friend of Max and did not get to know the parents very clearly. However, i met Jamie several times and i can say she was one of the most caring mothers and paid attention to her kids more then a lot of moms i have seen. She will be missed, and i forever pray for her. May the Calehuff family live past this tragedy and overcome it. R.I.P. I know you feel no pain, you're in a better peace. From: Brendan Colin
Date: 7/4/2004 6:04:34 AM



Name: The Jones Family
Email: redsknsr1@sbcglobal.net
Comments: Jamie � you are the mother that every woman strived to be more like. Beautiful, smart and patient, with a heart as big and golden as they come. Throughout your struggle, your beauty and grace would shine through every time we saw you. You touched the lives of everybody you came across be it tirelessly trudging up and down the football bleachers with a string of children following selling raffle tickets, eating chili dogs out at the ball field or lovingly caring for our children as they invaded your home for sleepovers. Words cannot express how much you will be missed. May God bless you, your family and friends.
Date: 7/4/2004 2:19:07 AM



Name: Tanya Roberts
Email: shoebear69@aol.com
Comments: I know Jamie our boys played football together for the last few years.I will truly miss your smiling face.Your yelling Go Handsome, your caring heart and your motherly advice. I love you. Tanya
Date: 7/3/2004 11:02:38 PM



Name: Michelle Wells-Leicester
Email: salmonmoose@sbcglobal.net
Comments: I worked with Jamie in the mid-80s at Cooley (when it was still called CGC) but have not had contact with her since I left in 1990. I had relatively few dealings with her as I was litigation and she was corporate but whenever we chanced to interact it was obvious that she was a person of quality. It was a tremendous shock to see (in the Mercury News) that she has left for the Light and has begun a new journey. The outpouring of support to you must be tremendous and it is no less than I would have expected, as Jamie was always professional, well-liked and a blast to be around (1980s Partner/Associate softball games come to mind...) Deepest sympathy to her family and close friends on what is an enormous loss to all of us.
Date: 7/3/2004 8:49:13 PM



Name: Jill
Email: jill.wilkinson@hro.com
Comments: Dearest Jamie. You touched my life more than you ever knew. While working at Cooley, I tried to model myself after you; the happy, friendly, wonderful, true, honest person you were, and by being supportive to my co-workers as you were always so supportive of me. When I left Cooley, after a while I contacted you and told you I was seeking another job. You suggested Latham and made a call for me. I was basically hired just by your and Alan's recommendation. Once I moved to San Francisco, I didn't have a chance to see you in person, but I always kept in touch with you via email. We talked for about a year about getting together for lunch but it never happened because of our 'schedules'. The last email you wrote to me a couple weeks ago you said that everything was becoming just so overwhelming. My heart went out to you Jamie. We should all remember that no matter what, one should always make time for friends and for the people who mean a lot to us. Life is so short. Jamie, your strength through this ordeal has given us all strength in one way or another. No one has mentioned it in any of the postings I've read, but I'm angry. Very angry that you have been taken away from us, from your loving family and friends. I'm also angry that we can send someone to the moon, but there is no cure for breast cancer. So, I would like to mention your friend Janet Jensen. She has been such an inspiration in this fight against breast cancer and has worked/walked tirelessly for a cure for this dreadful disease. Janet, I will forever support your efforts in the memory of our friend Jamie. To all Jamie's family and friends, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. Jamie will forever live in our hearts and I will never ever forget her. Jill Wilkinson
Date: 7/3/2004 8:07:15 PM



Name: Aunt Janie
Email: annajanebrown@yahoo.com
Comments: To Jamie, my darling niece, there will always be a special place in my heart for you. I will miss you and that sweet voice I so loved hearing when I talked to you. I have your pictures in the poolroom to show your beautiful face to all that visit us here. I love you! To my darling nephew Jeff, Keep up your faith and I will be praying for you and the kids everyday. I miss you all and I hope to come see you again in the near future. I love you! Aunt Janie
Date: 7/3/2004 8:07:11 PM



Name: steve hein
Email: steve.hein@gmail.com
Comments: I met Jamie last year at a party of a mutual friend. Her energy and personality were infectious, by the end of the night she had everyone dancing. I was crushed to learn of her passing, the world could use more angels like her.
Date: 7/3/2004 7:22:59 PM



Name: Emily Luce - Age 5
Email:
Comments: I love my Aunt Jamie because she was silly. I liked sleeping over in her big comfy bed. I love her very much. Everybody loves you. God please take care of Aunt Jamie she is one of your prettiest angels. My daddy loves you very much. We are sorry you passed and we will miss you. I wish you where still here. Love Emily�
Date: 7/3/2004 5:33:55 PM



Name: Shaina Denner
Email: shainalea@aol.com
Comments: Jamie, Your love for life, family and friends was apparent in everything you did. I had the pleasure of meeting you back in 1999 at Branham Hills when our boys, Doug & Max played baseball together. That was the first of many years of playing sports together. The boys were on the same baseball team a couple times after that and they played Pop Warner football together in 2001. Doug ALWAYS enjoyed hanging out at your house. You spoiled the kids with love and attention. Whether it was the boys hanging out together or you & I working together as "team moms," you were always willing to do whatevr it took to make sure things were running smooth. I didn't even know you were sick until I saw you one year at baseball. You looked great but you were going through treatment. I took for granted that you'd beat it and that I'd see you on the baseball field every season until Mitch & Matthew were too old to play there anymore. The last time I saw you was a few weeks ago on the "majors field." You were standing with Mitch & Nicole talking to a childhood friend of mine, Laure Evans. I talked with you for a few minutes and I remember when I hugged you & asked how you were doing, you told me you were taking things day by day and that "today is a good day." Well my friend, I hope that all your days are good days now! Rest and be at peace knowing that you, your children & your family are loved and in the hearts of all that knew you. Your kids are welcome in our home anytime and I hope they will call us if they need anything! Everytime I see them I will see you. The memory of you will live on FOREVER!
Date: 7/3/2004 3:46:09 PM



Name: patti
Email: fogheads@aol.com
Comments: I didn't know Jamie. I live in San Jose and I don't usually read the obituaries, but today I did for some reason and I was so touched by Jamie and her life. And I felt so saddened reading she has three children and they are now without a mother. But I also feel solace in knowing that they were the luckiest kids in the world having her for their mother, and to know that she is looking down on them as they go on in life. Rest in peace Jamie~ Patti
Date: 7/3/2004 3:31:29 PM



Name: Kate
Email: scorpios21@earthlink.net
Comments: I did not know Jamie, but felt compelled to come to her site...I lost a wonderful friend to breast cancer 13 months ago, she was 38. Jamie sounds very much like my friend, an amazing person whose life touched so many, my heart aches for you. May God bless Jamie, her family & friends and may each day bring even a little healing as you struggle to somehow move forward.
Date: 7/3/2004 2:41:08 PM



Name: Andrea Q
Email: andreaq214@aol.com
Comments: I did not have the pleasure of knowing Jamie(got the website off the Mercury), but reading this guestbook I can see that she touched the lives of many people. My prayers go to Jamie and her family. I'll walk in her honor next week at the Avon Walk in SF.
Date: 7/3/2004 1:44:34 PM



Name: Alan Mendelson
Email: alan.mendelson@lw.com
Comments: Dearest Jamie: I have read virtually all of the other tributes to you and am not sure that I can add much to what are glowing reviews on the impact that you had on so many people. Not a surprise, since you were one of the most beautiful, vibrant, together persons I have ever known. For over 10 years we worked together. Our relationship was hardly ever just boss-secretary (unless, of course, I acknowledged that I was working for you). No, we were much more than colleagues--we were friends in the truest sense. I could trust you with any information or to do anything that took a sensitive touch. I could tell you my deepest concerns about the firm or our clients, and I knew that you would maintain confidences and help me to a conclusion. Yet, we laughed a lot and had a great deal of fun. We could joke about your WBs and my boxer shorts. And, since you were in constant contact with Agnes, I knew that I could never get away with anything for more than 2 minutes. Your expectations were always high--whether with respect to how you did your job, or which Coach bag or piece of jewelry I should bring back for you from a trip. I know that my practice thrived simply because you were my right hand--clients and colleagues continually and consistently raved about the way you managed them and me--always friendly, always with humor, always showing interest in them. You had a gift, and you used it so positively. I am glad that, while we could not be there with you at the end, I could say goodbye to you two weeks ago at the Palo Alto Clinic. Even though you were clearly weakened, you held onto hope and the future. Throughout this terrible ordeal, I kept saying to myself, how can she be so optimistic? How can she believe that she will defeat this terrible disease? I would have given up long before. And I am sure that you were with us longer simply because of that faith. Jamie, you will always be with me. I loved you and love you still. And rest assurred that if your children need help from us in any way, we will be there. Now relax, flash that beautiful smile of yours and rest peacefully and contently knowing how much you meant to so many people.
Date: 7/3/2004 1:23:38 PM



Name: douglas r brendal
Email: douglasbrendal@comcast.net
Comments: i do not know you ,but you will be dearly missed.my god bless your oved ones
Date: 7/3/2004 1:19:40 PM



Name: Samantha Luce
Email:
Comments: You are my dearest aunt that I will love forever and ever. I will pray everyday to you. You are the best angel that god ever made. I will miss stuff you have done with me. It was fun having sleepovers and going to baseball games. I will miss sleeping in the big comfy bed You are best aunt I ever had. I love you so much and miss you forever and ever. Tell me in my dreams what heaven is like. You are very beautiful and love you. I wish you where still alive so you could be my aunt forever and ever. If you ever wonder how much I love you, I love more than anything. Love Sammy :-)
Date: 7/3/2004 1:19:17 PM



Name: John Luce
Email: johnluce@pacbell.net
Comments: Reading the entries in the guest book I can see she was well loved but I didn�t need the guest book to know this. I knew long before she was diagnosed with cancer that the people in the guest book where there for her and she was there for them. Even after she was diagnosed she still made sure she was there for others. She never gave up living even the day before she passed she was still talking about going to Hawaii. I was fortunate enough to know Jamie for 38 years, do to the fact that I am her brother. Jamie was a great sister and a friend; no one could beat up her little brother but her. She was always there when I needed her from childhood to adulthood and I couldn�t imagine a life without Jamie. Even during hard times in our childhood she always made sure her little brother was ok. When I was sad she would stop what she was doing to cheer me up. I will miss Jamie and her smile, her Sunday morning calls to see how I am doing. Most of all I will miss just being with her. I was lucky enough to be with Jamie when she passed and her last words to me where �Hi Johnny I love you�. Those words and her last breath will be with me forever. My daughters ask me why God needed another angel and I can�t answer that because I ask the same question. Jamie was an angel to so many of us. She will be missed but not forgotten. She will live in my heart forever and the hearts of so many. I love you James�.
Date: 7/3/2004 1:06:13 PM



Name: Laura
Email: laurage@aol.com
Comments: Thank you for printing this email address in the Mercury News and allowing me to come into Jamie's life to see what a wonderful person she was. Every photo captures her beautiful inner and outer spirit. Happiness, Joy, great friends and a loving family obviously surrounded her. Just looking at her picture, she really showed that angelic glow to her. How great for all that knew her. She is on a new journey now but her spirt will live on forever. I say a prayer and send well wishes to her family and friends during this difficult time.
Date: 7/3/2004 12:59:49 PM



Name: Randi
Email: randaykay@hotmail.com
Comments: I did not know Jamie but was visited the website after reading the Mercury News. She clearly lived her life with joy and I wish all her family and loved ones peace. The memories will live on forever, and she will be there in everyday moments when you least expect it. Take care -
Date: 7/3/2004 11:50:24 AM



Name: Germaine,Tyler and Phil Gorenflo
Email: GSgermaine@aol.com
Comments: Deepest sympathy to the family.You will be missed. The loud screaming from the bleechers. The team mom for the first year. You will be in our thoughts. God bless you and your family.
Date: 7/3/2004 11:37:48 AM



Name: Marc & Terri Ramos
Email: ramostr@state.gov
Comments: Jamie, our deepest apologies that our work takes us to far off places (Djibouti, Horn of Africa) and that we were unable to spend more time with you. We are, however, grateful that we were able to visit with you last September when we returned for vacation. Our love for you is strong and we will miss your beautiful smile and kind heart.
Date: 7/3/2004 3:43:36 AM



Name: Camie
Email: jd.camie@verizon.net
Comments: My loving cousing Jamie, I was blessed to have you as part of my family and even more so as my friend. You have touched so many lives in so many ways. I miss you more than words can say. I love you! Until we meet again.....Butterfly kisses!
Date: 7/3/2004 3:22:11 AM



Name: Sally Kay
Email: skay@cooley.com
Comments: Jamie - I am so grateful to you for so many things...for sharing your family with me, for being one of and introducing me to the best friends I could ever have wished for, for helping to lead me from Cadence to Cooley and to navigate the waters of my first year here, for showing me that in the face of adversity, you can be strong and dignified and beautiful. I have so many memories of you that I will always cherish - every one of them include your infectious smile, your impeccable sense of fashion (accessories MUST match), your love of good wine (but NEVER in a plastic cup), your unbounding energy and your love of life and family and friends. I am a better person for having known you. I miss you so much already... For just a moment I�m sure I saw a flicker of light ahead. Perhaps it was your smile. Though past now, remembered, in my heart like the small sound of a butterfly passing by. No night is so dark that can not be brightened with memories of you. Raindrops carry along your blessings from heaven to wash away my tears and bring me hope anew. I love you and will hold you in my heart always. Sally
Date: 7/3/2004 2:31:45 AM



Name: Wesley Wooden
Email: weswooden@mac.com
Comments: Perhaps not gone but changed, A soul turned to light To shine forever in the sky.
Date: 7/3/2004 1:10:35 AM



Name: Fred Sohm
Email: huskerfs@aol.com
Comments: My Dear Jamie, It has been three days since you were called away from us, and I must tell you that I miss you more and more every day. I miss your happy smile, your hearty laugh and your unselfish concern for others. It is very hard to understand why the LORD called you away from us, but I would equate His decision to one of a person gathering flowers from their garden, who wanted to pick the most perfect ROSE to adorn their house. Well the LORD picked the most perfect ROSE in his garden to make HEAVEN a more bueatiful place. I feel so very blessed to have had you be a part of my life for the past thirty-five years. I cannot begin to tell you how your unselfish and generous ways have impacted our lives. Among many, three thoughts have raced thru my head constantly for the last three days. #1 The day that you got the bad news that you would not be able to get well - you called our house and gave the news to Judy as I was at the park with Sheri's girls. Judy told me later that day when I got home. As disappointed and heart sick as you were about this tragic news, you called me that night to make sure that I was "ok" #2 When you had the Hospice meeting early in June, you gave Judy a lock of your hair to give to me as you were loosing yours due to chemo and you knew how I liked to save things that meant a lot to me. #3 Last and most touching, last Monday might, the night before you were called away, I came to visit you and as I was getting ready to leave I gave you a big hug and proceeded to "loose it". As sick as you were, you gave me a big hug and said, "Dont worry Freddie everything is going to be ok". Honey, I could go on and on about how much having you in our lives has meant to Judy and me but you know how much we LOVE you !!! Again, I am so greatful to GOD for putting you in our lives and we know that some day we will be together in HEAVEN !!! GOD BLESS YOU and I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH !!! Your #2 DAD
Date: 7/3/2004 12:59:43 AM



Name: Ray Tomlinson
Email: raysnow@pacbell.net
Comments: Our deepest condolences to Jamies family, Betty and Jim. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. May God be with all of you. Ray, Sharon, Virginia and Alan
Date: 7/3/2004 12:35:48 AM



Name: Jo-Ann Hidrogo
Email: johidrogo@yahoo.com
Comments: Jamie, I have vivid memories of Benton St., when you were 4 years olf and came knocking on my door, to see if I could come out to play. I was 7 years old, we became best childhood friends. Hey, remember that summer when we shampood the lawn with your mom's bubble bath, to create an instant slip n' slide. The last day I saw you was a holiday at your mom's. You were smiling and laughing. I will remember you this way, Someday again, You and I will play.
Date: 7/3/2004 12:28:56 AM



Name: Agnes Mendelson
Email: sp4mendy@pacbell.net
Comments: Dear Sister Friend, How I will miss you! You will always be a part of our family and you will be in our hearts forever! The stories and situations that the two of us shared during the 10 years that you worked with Alan will never be forgotten. Every day we would call each other to just say "hi" or to update each other on the latest news. There is no one else that could help me keep Alan in line like you could. Jamie, we had some great laughs together. One story that comes to mind is the time that you created the "neighborhood flag system" for Alan's neighborhood at Cooley. The flag system consisted of colored post-its that were placed on your computer that measured Alan's demeanor on a daily basis. A red post-it meant: Do not approach! Go back to your office! A yellow post-it meant: Proceed with caution! A green post-it meant: Go for it! Jamie, how many green post-its did you use during the 10 years? Maybe 3 or 4? Jamie, I think about you every day and I know that you are always near by watching over everyone that you love! I will never forget you! Love, Agnes
Date: 7/2/2004 11:19:29 PM



Name: Mike & Kathy Conrad
Email: kconrad@morino.com
Comments: Jeff and Boys, In this cold grey world, there will always return the greening of spring. There is always that promise. Love Condor
Date: 7/2/2004 7:09:36 PM



Name: Sarah Petty
Email: spetty@cooley.com
Comments: My dear Jamie -- I've been afraid to write, afraid from the hurt of missing you so much, but there are things to say to my friend. Funny thing is, I know what you'd be telling me -- you'd say "It'll be okay, don't worry about me, I'll be fine." You were our Jamie -- never complaining or feeling sorry for herself -- too busy consoling and comforting others. Your courage and grace while struggling with your illness were an inspiration to us all. Your life was such a success - your energy was unstoppable, your good deeds impossible to compete with, your love and friendship unconditional. You welcomed me into your life nearly 17 years ago -- a friendship that was a gift from God, and for now I'll give you back to him. I promise to catch up with you one day though, and when I do, please ask some of those newer angel friends of yours (there will be several, no doubt) to move on over, because we've got catching up to do. I miss you terribly, and will love and remember you forever. To Jamie's circle of family and friends -- who cared for her with the love and honor she so deserved -- how lucky Jamie was to have you there with her during her fight for her life -- she was honored, I have no doubt. To Jamie's children and family, you have my deepest sympathy over your enormous loss. Thank you for bringing Jamie into this world, and for sharing her with me. Love, Sarah Petty
Date: 7/2/2004 6:13:49 PM



Name: veronika graydon
Email: veronikita@verizon.net
Comments: I sadly didn't have the privilege of meeting Jamie, but I am so blessed to call her sister in law, Lynn, one of my dearest friends. Through her stories and anecdotes about Jamie, I came to know of a wonderful soul, a strong spirit, a wonderful woman who was loved by so many. My thoughts and prayers are with her family. Max and Mitch, I pray you find peace in knowing how much your mom was loved - and that she will always be with you. Much love, v....
Date: 7/2/2004 5:57:01 PM



Name: Lisa Toomey
Email: GET698@aol.com
Comments: To the Calehuff Family: Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time. Your Mom/Wife must have been a beautiful person. She will live in your hearts. With loving prayers, The Toomey Family
Date: 7/2/2004 5:52:33 PM



Name: paulie bunnell
Email:
Comments: jamie was the best mom a kid can ever had. she never got mad but when she did you noe you did somthing really wrong. she allways gave support to mitches and max's baseball teams and cheer no matter who came up. you should allways remember jamie calehuff she was the best. i lov u so much jamie!!!!!!! paulie
Date: 7/2/2004 5:33:42 PM



Name: paul bunnell
Email: bmxracr5@aol.com
Comments: the whole calehuff family i am sorry about jamie. but keep your chins up i lov u all paulie bunnell #3
Date: 7/2/2004 5:26:53 PM



Name: Carolyn Peterson
Email: petersonca@cooley.com
Comments: I am one of those who are fortunate enough to say that Jamie has been a very dear friend for the past five years. We met in person while working to open Cooley Godward's Virginia office after years of working together on the phone. She did an amazing job coordinating the many details involved with such a big project and, as usual, charmed everyone in the process. Then, as many of you know, two years ago we were very fortunate when she came to work at Sutter Hill Ventures. She jumped right in took on the organization of the Entrepreneurs Fund events with creativity and energy and, again, charmed everyone in sight. At work, she was nothing short of inspiration during the course of her illness � she kept her bounce, her kindness, her positive attitude. Ninety-five percent of the time, if you didn�t know what she was battling, you would not have known she was ill. She is honestly one of the most vibrant, joyous people I have ever known, as well as one of the most beautiful. No one liked a good time more than Jamie � and I know those of you who know her know what I mean!! She was really �on her game� at her 40th Birthday party, wasn�t she? I will miss her joy in living, her laughter, her common sense, her sheer, infectious sense of fun, her sense of style, and most of all her friendship. I simply cannot believe she won�t be with us any more. JJ, Wendy: What great friends you were to her!! What fun you had together! Did anyone spend any time with Jamie and not laugh? Jamie had so many good friends because she took the time to BE a good friend. To Jamie's family: How wonderful to have had such a daughter, sister, aunt, wife and what an awful void she leaves. To Max, Mitchie and Nicole, you will miss your mom more than anyone; she loved you all so much and was so very proud of all of you. Keep making her proud!
Date: 7/2/2004 5:09:51 PM



Name: Lynn Hoffman-Luce
Email: Lynnluce@pacbell.net
Comments: Jamie, it has been my honor and priviledge to care for you over the last month. You and I began our journey when we were 8 years old and never would I have know it to end with you here. I am so blessed to be married to your incredible brother and be a permanent part of this wonderful family! We will continue to honor your memory at every holiday gathering, birthdays, celebrations - everyday! Your neices will miss the sleepovers with Auntie and the bubble baths in your tub! Until we meet again in Heaven I love you always, Lynn
Date: 7/2/2004 4:44:56 PM



Name: Nathalie Truong
Email: ntruong@tweisel.com
Comments: It was a pleasure to know Jamie through our working relationship. She was so genuinely wonderful, caring, loving and honest. I can't even imagine the sadness her family and closest friends are feeling now. My thoughts are with you and I want you to know that she touched my life and I'm so glad I had a short opportunity to know her.
Date: 7/2/2004 3:38:26 PM



Name: Dave and Judy Marks
Email: pdmarks1@msn.com
Comments: Although we have never met Jamie, we believe we know very much about her character. After all we have seen Jamie's reflection from the day that our grandson introduced us to her beautiful daughter Nicole. So we know Jamie has been graced with the gift of tenderness, love, caring and kindness. To the family and friends of Jamie: May the Prince of Peace impart His peace to you. And to Nicole: Papa and Shu Shu love you very much! Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid. John 14:27
Date: 7/2/2004 2:32:26 PM



Name: Cathy Gaughan
Email: singrbear@astound.net
Comments: I did not know Jamie. But from what I have read and heard, she was a beautiful person. My prayers and thoughts are with the family as you deal with this great loss. I hope that the special memories you have will sustain you through some of the very tough and lonely times ahead. I was just recently diagnosed with breast cancer and I am walking in the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer in San Francisco. Please accept my deepest sympathy for this loss. Cathy Gaughan
Date: 7/2/2004 1:27:24 PM



Name: Julie August
Email:
Comments: Jamie, I only knew you from baseball and football, but you always had something nice to say to everyone. You had a beautiful smile, a great laugh, and you always brought good wine to the board meetings!!! You will be greatly missed by all who knew you. My condolences to the Calehuff family, and God bless you.
Date: 7/2/2004 11:17:11 AM



Name: Valerie
Email: Valerieeeee1@aol.com
Comments: Precious Jamie, We all grew up on the same block and although somewhat older than the rest of you I remember you guys running around, riding your bicycles and being great kids! As a sister in the struggle against this silent monster, know that you have been an encouragement to so many of us as we pray and wait for a cure. Your bright outlook and courage have been a source of strength for many, myself included! Thank you. Bessie Stanley wrote one of my favorite verses and has become my motto of sorts. May I share it with you now, as it speaks clearly of who you are: "To laugh often and much, to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children. . . to leave the world a bit better . . . to know even one life had breathed easier because you had lived, that is to have succeeded!" May God bless you Jamie. @--{----
Date: 7/2/2004 2:09:49 AM



Name: Olivia Ash
Email: abercrombie3192@aol.com
Comments: Jamie, I will miss you so much during the football season, I remember you were always so sweet to me and my sister. You always took the time to say Hi. I'll miss you alot and I'm glad you are in a better place now.Love, Olivia
Date: 7/2/2004 1:08:25 AM



Name: jessamy koehne
Email:
Comments: i signed this guestbook already but i have more to say about this amazing and loving woman. im her neighbor, and my mom was one of jamie's many close friends. i first moved into a house on woodford when i was 6 and since my 7th birthday jamie went to all of my birthday paries,this year im turning 18 and i cant imagine having my birthday without her, i know that she is with god and out of pain, but i miss her. our families did a lot together, we went to the beach, we did neighborhood bbq's and none of it will be the same without her. i feel that i didnt take advantage of the time that i had with her. im making up for that right now, every night i pray to her, i tell her that i love her and i tell her that there are a lot of people that care for her and are there for her family, and how her family is there for me and mine. she will remain with me in my heart forever and i will never forget her infectious laugh, her warm welcoming smile, or how she made me feel like i was one of her children. like i said before she will always remain on woodford and could never be forgotten.(she will always be one of the third witches of woodford) i love you jamie
Date: 7/2/2004 12:30:34 AM



Name: Kelli King
Email: kelli44@hotmail.com
Comments: I first came to know Jamie while I worked at a client of Cooley Godward, and had the pleasure of talking to her regularly and always looked forward to our conversations. When I came to work at Cooley, Jamie was one of the first people to welcome me to the firm and always took the time to stop and chat - she made work more fun! Jamie's warmth and generous spirit is something I'll always remember. My prayers and thoughts go out to her family and friends.
Date: 7/1/2004 9:39:37 PM



Name: Patrick Pohlen
Email:
Comments: Jamie, I spent the last hour reading your guestbook. It is staggering the number of lives you have touched. You and your family will be in my prayers forever.
Date: 7/1/2004 8:59:45 PM



Name: April Downer
Email:
Comments: To Jamie's Family, I am so very sorry for your loss. I knew Jamie years ago, I am an old family friend. It has been many years since I have seen her and when I look at these beautiful pictures, I am reminded of her sincere and gorgeous smile. As well, as the kind person behind it. My prayers are with you all through this time of mourning. May God comfort you all and keep you close to each other.
Date: 7/1/2004 8:52:00 PM



Name: Kathy Gray
Email: KLGrayCPA@Hotmail.com
Comments: I would like to express my sincere and heartfelt condolences to the family and friends of Jamie. What a beautiful and radiant woman I see in these pictures. I wish I had had the priviledge of knowing her. In 13 days it will be 1 year ago that I lost my very best friend to cancer. It may not ease your pain much today, but please know that I will add her name to my shirt I'm wearing in the SF Avon Walk for Breast Cancer and she will walk with me and everyone else this year. You are all in my thoughts. I wish you peace and strength.
Date: 7/1/2004 8:39:04 PM



Name: Jackie Pitman
Email: jackie@jackiepitman.com
Comments: Vibrant energy, engaging smile, warmth and love; those are the things I think of when I think of Jamie. I have always been struck by her beauty, both inner and outer. We have been "baseball" families with the Calehuffs for years. Jamie was always at the head of the line for Team Mom! We'll miss hearing, "Way to go, Handsome!" when Max is at bat! Jamie loved her children fiercely, that was plain to see. Max, Mitch and Nicole: you are so lucky to have had her for your Mom. She is with you always in your heart and soul, that won't go away. I know she didn't want to leave her family and friends. She fought so hard and with such grace. God Bless each of you who loved her so much. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Date: 7/1/2004 8:32:10 PM



Name: Hilary Luros
Email: hilary@athenalaw.com
Comments: When I look back on my days at Cooley, I fondly remember the twinkle in Jamie's eye and her beautiful smile. I know that she is now looking down on us from heaven, and she is still smiling, only that twinkle has become a star. May she rest in peace.
Date: 7/1/2004 8:11:13 PM



Name: Yolanda Brown Risch
Email: yrisch@cooley.com
Comments: I first met Jamie at Cooley over six years ago. What I remember most about Jamie was her beautiful smile and her love of life. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends.
Date: 7/1/2004 7:37:01 PM



Name: Pamela Compton
Email: compton.pamela@dorsey.com
Comments: I'm back... to share that the whirl wind of emotions I've been experiencing over the past 24 hours has been, well, difficult. I can only imagine how those of you and her family are feeling and coping. It's a difficult time. I look through her beautiful pictures, read guestbook passages, see my old friends in the pictures and passages and sit up here in Washington wishing I could be down there with all of you. And through it all I have to rush off to get a Fed X off to Korea. The irony of life and priorities. I am grateful to have known Jamie and to know I can at least be with friends and her family and friends through this guestbook. Wow. What a time............
Date: 7/1/2004 7:28:34 PM



Name: Sharon
Email: boensh@cooley.com
Comments: My prayers and condolences to Jamie's family - Jamie's bright smile and friendly manner will truly be missed!
Date: 7/1/2004 6:31:07 PM



Name: Angie Elkerton
Email: auenaka@tcelectric.net
Comments: You dont know me, but I feel the pain and loss you are going through. So beautiful and so young. Sometimes life just doesnt seem fair. I didn't know Jamie, but I can feel the emotions of everyone involved as I lost my mother to cancer at age 50. I never have gotten over the "it just isn't fair" emotion. As most people have their own way of greiving and getting through such a loss, it will get easier, you will get stronger and life will go on, but the memory, the pain of losing such a beautiful and full of life mother, daughter, wife, friend... will stay with you....and thats okay. Just know Jamie is in a beautiful place, in peace, and always with you...forever and ever.... until you meet again.
Date: 7/1/2004 6:30:16 PM



Name: Rita Duggan
Email: rduggan124@aol.com
Comments: I hever had the pleasure of meeting Jamie. For those of you who did, you should feel honored to know such a courageous young woman. She is certainly in my prayers.
Date: 7/1/2004 6:26:27 PM



Name: Shira Riff
Email: sriff@event-360.com
Comments: I never had the pleasure of meeting Jamie, but I can tell that she was one amazing and luminous woman. The void and the sorrow that I have felt here at the Breast Cancer 3-Day is enormous and overpowering. My thoughts and warmest wishes are with Jamie's family.
Date: 7/1/2004 5:21:44 PM



Name: Ryan
Email: homerunking3333@yahoo.com
Comments: I'll never forget when Jamie came to our baseball games and whenever Max or I came up to bat she would yell, "come on handsome". I will miss Jamie and the support she gave to everyone she knew. Thanks for everything!!
Date: 7/1/2004 5:06:17 PM



Name: Kim Tabellion
Email: kimtab@pacbell.net
Comments: I wasn't home when Mitch called to tell us about his mom's passing. I just want to tell you how sorry I am. Each time I saw her at school functions, she looked like such a fighter and always had a smile on her face. With deepest sympathy, Kim Tabellion
Date: 7/1/2004 4:50:52 PM



Name: Lisa Ynzunza
Email: ynzunzale@cooley.com
Comments: This is such a hard message to write in finding the words to express my deepest sympathy to Jamie�s family and her many friends. It comes close to my heart and spirit being a breast cancer survivor myself, in wondering why such a beautiful spirit as Jamie�s was taken out of the many lives she has touched. I do know that she is in a better place. I feel sad that she is gone, but knowing she is no longer suffering gives me peace. I feel so blessed and grateful that I had the privilege of knowing Jamie while she worked at Cooley. Her radiant smile and energy always brightened my many days at work. May God bless all of us with the beautiful memories of Jamie. Lisa Ynzunza
Date: 7/1/2004 4:49:03 PM



Name: Malia Dean
Email: malia.dean@ngc.com
Comments: I was very surprised to hear about your fate last night. My prayers go out to your family during this time. I am glad we had a chance to work together many years ago at Cooley. I, too, remember your infectious laugh that will never be forgotten. Aloha oi!
Date: 7/1/2004 4:32:50 PM



Name: Jaimee King
Email: jaimee.king@veritas.com
Comments: To Jamie's family, especially her her children - what I know most about Jamie, other than her obvious smile, energy, beauty and kindness - was the amount that she is loved by her dear friends. I had the honor of working with Jamie and some of those friends while at Cooley. They were all more like sisters than co-workers. My condolences and sympathy goes to you all.
Date: 7/1/2004 4:22:53 PM



Name: TERESA
Email:
Comments: I WILL SO MISS THE FUN WE HAD DURING FOOTBALL.THAT FIRST YEAR COMING INTO THE MIGHTY MIGHT SEASON WAS NOT EASY. HAVING TO MEET NEW PEOPLE AND ALL THOSE NEW FACES....BUT THAN THERE WAS YOURS..WITH THAT BIG SMILE AND BOY WAS THAT A RELIEF..YOU WERE THE BEST TEAM MOM! YOU WILL FOREVER BE IN MY HEART JAMIE...MUCH LOVE TO YOUR FAMILY.
Date: 7/1/2004 4:04:12 PM



Name: michaela caputo gallagher
Email: abercrombiemama3@aol.com
Comments: hey jamie im sorry about what happened!!! i wish u could've stayed with us. you will be missed dearly!!! we love u ssooo much have a great life in heaven! luv u, michaela
Date: 7/1/2004 3:56:32 PM



Name: Shirley Allan
Email: sallanca@msn.com
Comments: My dear Jamie, I can't believe you've left us but your smile and memory will live on forever in our hearts. You were so supportive and fun to have around while we worked at Latham together. I know you've gone to a better place but the world will miss your smile and laughter. My prayers are with your family. I will think of you often. You hold a special place in my heart. Love, Shirley
Date: 7/1/2004 3:41:48 PM



Name: Wendy
Email: seagravesw@cooley.com
Comments: Buddy, I will miss you terribly forever but you will always be in my heart and I know you are looking down on me and JJ. You are the best friend a person could have and I will miss your daily friendship, infectious smile and laugter that came so easy to you. You are quite simply THE BEST! LOVE YOU BIGGGG!!!! Hugs and smoochies! Wen
Date: 7/1/2004 3:40:38 PM



Name: Robin & Duane Polly
Email: pollys@c-zone.net
Comments: Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. Although I never got to meet Jamie I feel as if I know her from the pictures and all the letters I have recieved. She was a very beautiful lady and very blessed with friends and family who will miss her very much. Our prayers and thoghts are with you at this time of sorrow.
Date: 7/1/2004 3:28:47 PM



Name: Debbie Rice
Email: riceds@cooley.com
Comments: Hi Darlin: You were my very first friend at Cooley, and you were still my very dear friend up until your passing Tuesday night. I am so grateful to the Lord that I was there with you that evening, holding your hand and saying good-bye. You are a true friend. I will miss you so very much. Love Always, Debbie
Date: 7/1/2004 3:19:59 PM



Name: Joe Conroy
Email: jconroy@cooley.com
Comments: To Jamie's family, there are no words that could convey the depth of our sorrow at the news of Jamie's passing. And no words I am sure that could fill the enormous void that her death has left in your lives. We have no answers to why she is gone and no salve for your grief. We can only offer our prayers for Jamie's soul and that the pain in your hearts over her passing will soon be replaced by the enduring memories of a life well lived and of a special person who was taken all too soon but left such love behind. In a very brief period of time Jamie left her mark here on all of us in the Cooley Reston office which she helped to start. We are blessed to have been able to share time with her and, as is the case with countless others I am sure, far far better for the experience. God bless you.
Date: 7/1/2004 3:10:13 PM



Name: Debra Williams
Email: debbcwalker@earthlink.net
Comments: Dear Jamie: As I read all these posts I know what a special person left us all too early. I met you briefly last year and remember your vibrant smile. I ache for your family and friends. I will keep them all in my thoughts and prayers and wish them strength. Hope to meet you again, walking one day. Deb Williams/Contra Costa Canal Gal
Date: 7/1/2004 2:50:57 PM



Name: Candee
Email: thecandee@juno.com
Comments: I only meet Jamie twice but.....she was so full of life and ALWAYS smiling and very funny. I know she will be deeply missed by her friends and family and I will treasure the stories they will tell about her. Be happy Jamie you are finally home!! My thoughts and best wishes for all her family and friends
Date: 7/1/2004 2:38:31 PM



Name: Briana Perkins
Email: gbbgh@sbcglobal.net
Comments: What a beautiful smile! I did not know Jamie personally but her brother, John, spoke of her often. I know she has a loving group of family and friends who will miss her very much. My thoughts are with her family.
Date: 7/1/2004 2:25:58 PM



Name: Mike & Karen Stengel
Email: mike.stengel@marriott.com
Comments: Dear Jeff & Calehuff Kids, Your mom has gone to heaven fighting a horrible disease. You need to look towards your dad for comfort and support. Always remember the good times you had with your mother and wife Jamie. All your family and friends are praying for all of you. Lets continue to turn our efforts towards a cure for breast cancer. We are glad that Jamie touched our lives. Sincerely The Stengel Family
Date: 7/1/2004 2:15:00 PM



Name: Ashley Evans
Email: laureevans@comast.net
Comments: Dear Jamie.. I am sorry about what happened. I am Brandons sister. You were a very nice person and a sweet mother. And a mother who should deserve a good life. I hope you have a good life in heaven with some of your new friends. you were a good person. And I bet you'll stay like that.I hope had a good life.
Date: 7/1/2004 2:11:09 PM



Name: Laure Evans
Email: laureevans@comast.net
Comments: Jamie, you will be missed so much. I really enjoyed getting to know you. Mitch is such a great kid and I really like having him around. We will always be there for your family. You were an incredible inspiration to me. No matter what you seemed to be going through you always seemed to look at the good side. When I tell my friends about you I always seem to say how much you smiled and seemed happy, even through all of your pain.
Date: 7/1/2004 1:46:25 PM



Name: Brian Unsworth
Email: bunswort@tampabay.rr.com
Comments: I met Jamie last year at my sister's wedding. I had heard several stories about her and felt I knew her even though I had never met her. Her personality, smile, and love of life were the first things I noticed about her. We have all lost a wonderful person. My prayers go out to all family members and friends.
Date: 7/1/2004 1:25:02 PM



Name: Sherry Mehalic
Email: shertrvl@erols.com
Comments: I met Jamie while visiting Wendy in California. I have known Wendy for almost 25 years (hard to believe). I knew that any friend of Wendy's had to be special, and she was. Jamie was kind enough to come out and meet Wendy's old friends from the east coast and welcome us with open arms. And even though our time was brief, it made me feel great to know Wendy had made a friend like Jamie on the west coast. Being such and old friend of Wendy's, of course I worried about her moving out to California. Jamie took the worry away and I left California that year feeling Wendy had found a new home. God Bless her family and friends.
Date: 7/1/2004 1:21:35 PM



Name: Gina Estrada
Email: gestrada@daycasebeer.com
Comments: Though it has been years since I saw Jamie, all I can remember is her beutiful smiling face. Jamie has not left my heart or my prayers since I heard the news yesterday, nor will she leave them very soon. To her family and dear friends. I wish you peace and strength during this time. My God bless you Jamie and take you softly. -- Gina and David Estrada
Date: 7/1/2004 12:59:50 PM



Name: Cassandrea Miller
Email: ccmiller@gmail.com
Comments: I met Jamie many years ago while at Cooley PA. I'll always remember her laughter and strength as she navigated through career, marriage and family. My sincere condolences to her children Mitch, Max and Nicole. She will live on through each of you.
Date: 7/1/2004 12:55:50 PM



Name: Yolanda Celi
Email: yceli@valdero.com
Comments: My condolences to the family. I met Jamie back in 1997, but didn't really get to know her until we opened up the Cooley office in VA. And what a life of the party she always was! I'll never forget Jamie and her warm and fun personality, great sense of humor, beautiful smile. We had some great times. Jamie, thanks for the memories. You'll always be in my heart.
Date: 7/1/2004 12:37:11 PM



Name: Sadija
Email: smetovic@sbcglobal.net
Comments: To the family: This is so difficult for those that are left behind. Be strong for one another. Jamie: I asked the lord to bless you as I prayed for you today, to guide you and protect you as you go along your way... His love is always with you and his promises are true, and when we give him all our cares You know he will se us through. So when the road you're travelling on seems difficult at best. Just remember I'm here praying and god will do the rest.
Date: 7/1/2004 12:12:30 PM



Name: Brenda
Email: bbarnett@lsil.com
Comments: I never met Jamie and knew her through Donna Black. I was one of her vigilant prayer warriors. Our prayers of relief from her suffering have been answered. I picture her now dancing without pain, no physical limitations, and in the embrace of God's loving arms. Betty, you are such an awesome mom. Now I pray that your mom-heart is healed. I know you must be exhausted on every level. Blessing and prayers to you and Jamie's children. In love and light, Brenda Barnett
Date: 7/1/2004 12:00:45 PM



Name: Kim Pomerleau
Email: creativepromo@msn.com
Comments: Jamie - I have never met you but feel as if I knew you through our friend Janet. I know your light will always shine bright upon those who were fortunate enough to have known and loved you. You have touched & inspired so many people even those you have not met. My sympathy to Jamie's family and friends. God Bless you all & God Bless Jamie
Date: 7/1/2004 11:40:32 AM



Name: susan
Email:
Comments: Jamie I never met you in person. Your sons friend told me about your web site, WOW how loved you are and how loved you will always be. You have touched so many lives, even mine. Until we all meet in heaven.
Date: 7/1/2004 11:21:38 AM